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GUYS(AND GIRLS) HELP! Please!!!! I'm in love, and shouldn't be!?
So, I am a junior in high school. The guy I like is a senior. He was brought up in a Muslim household. We began talking and asked too keep things on the down low since he only has a month until he graduates and doesnt want his parents finding out. He told me he loves me and I always woke up to long messages from him about how pretty I am and how much he loves everything about me. Then two days ago he decided he will have an arranged marriage doesnt want to date and go against his religion. In a moment of desperation, I said we could just be friends with "benefits". Now every time I text him, all I think about is how much I love him and how he will never tell me he loves me again, and how I'll have to be around him and not be able to tell him I love him. He doesnt want a relationship at all, hes decided to stay true to his family, yet he loved me three days ago. I know Im only setting myself up to be heart broke, but I love him.. Also if I dont text him back, he'll text me until I answer him. So it's the most confusing thing ever. Ive tried to get it out of him that he does still love me but he insists he doesnt...
HELP PLEASE!
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- 7 years ago
Ik how you feel... well how I felt when this hapend to me. But I will try my best to help in the short character span I have. See love is like a rose with thorns, painful but beautiful! Sometimes the person you want to be with the most is the person that you are best with out. From what you have told me I don't think he will change his mind. If you want to get over him explain to him that you need your space from him and why. This will be hard but its what's for the best. Seek out to your closes friends for comfort. A heart break is a blessing from god. Its his way fo saying he saved you from the wrong one. They say it takes the time you knew them to get over them. Until then, surround your self with friends. Keep your self busy so you don't think of him. This is a new chpter in your life but you camt start it if you keep reading the last one. Don't ever sell you self short. Stand tall. Never be ashamed of who you are.your are beautiful, and loved. You are needed, you are worth it
Source(s): Dont forget that. Don't let your scars define who you are. Let you trials shape you, let you victories humble you! Its better to break your own heart by leaving then, to have that one person break it everyday youre with them. Remeber all of this and you will be fine! If you would like to talk still commenet on this and I'd love to help! I wish you best of luck!
