Should I Date The Girl of My Dream?

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Hi guys! Need some help for a brother here. I am 25-year old this year, and have been single for more than 2 years. I am a very busy man, I work 15 - 20 hours a day, and I love my job very much. But lately I have been seeing this beautiful lady, someone that I have known since I was 14.

She knew that I have a special feeling towards her, but we have never talked about it.. Because she have a boyfriend, and to make it worse... she just got engaged last two weeks ago. And I don't know why she accepted it, because she told me a lot about the problems she's facing with him, and how she wish to have a boyfriend like me. She will always find the time to text me when his boyfriend wasn't around. She will look for me whenever she is not in her mood. But not until she got engaged, we have never text or talk since then.

The problem here is that I am a very busy man, I spend my day/night at work and book reading. And because of that, I have very little time to spend on other activities, and that is making me afraid to date anyone.

What would you do if you were me? Would you date someone that is not happily engaged? Plus if she is the girl of your dream?

Anonymous · Answer

Think of it this way... What if you just asked the girl of your dreams to marry you and she said yes. You'd be the happiest guy in the world, and then she just leaves you like that for the first guy to come along... If she'd do that to him... then she'd do that to you.

? · Answer

I would. Just make sure if that's what she wants

LadyMarissa · Answer

Run, RUn, RUN!!!  WHY would you want to date a cheater???  IF she'll cheat on him, she'll cheat on you!!!  It doesn't matter WHY she got engaged to him, she CHOSE to say YES when he asked!!!  Then she immediately got herself a boyfriend???  NOT the kind of woman you should even be thinking about!!!

Blue Sky · Answer

No you shouldn't. This would be a fling that wouldn't last anyway and why take the chance of getting your heart and emotions stomped on? I feel sorry for both her and boyfriend because its obvious they should not be together, but my advice is to focus on your job, avoid her like the plague, and find yourself a woman who is available. You're a good looking dude, surely you can find yourself a single woman.

? · Answer

She's engaged to another man. If she really liked you she would have been engaged to you. probably she's just using you for times when she bored.

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Should I Date The Girl of My Dream?

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