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Girlfriend texts a guy who flirts with her?

So a couple months ago my girlfriend went to a concert with her friend. (Let me add more info)

During this week before and after the concert me and my girlfriend were fighting about everything. We then broke up the day after the concert and we still fought. She told me there's this guy who she met at the concert, and that he has really pretty eyes. She told me they have been texting for about a week after the concert. Constantly, the guy is telling her that she's much more prettier than her friend and that my girlfriend was flawless. He even you corny jokes. During this time me and my girlfriend were just on a break. We fought about this guy and I got mad at her because she allowed him to flirt with her. She promised me that she wouldn't text him ever again.

We got back a couple days later.

2 months later I went on her phone to take a selfie just for funzies. I look at her messages and there I see that they were texting each other. The conversation was short, and they only talked about how sick and icky she was. I was fine but I kept scrolling up to see that it stopped. She said she deleted the older messages because they weren't important. She said he starting texting her by apologizing for not texting her and that he doesn't hate her. She said it was the right thing to talk to him because he was apologizing.

How could I trust her? She thinks he's hot and he think she's beautiful. I know he likes her but I don't know of she likes him. She promised not to text him.

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Man, sure sounds like shifty situation because no matter what happens she has this guy to hit up whenever she feels like it. She probably sent him signals while you were fighting/on a break or whenever she met him. This sort of thing can happen when one or the other is upset about the relationship or 'on a break' .. I feel that if she was serious about you when you guys got back together that she would have told this other guy off and that would have been the end of it...no more b.s. texting whatsoever she may call it. Anyway see if she will for real kick this other guy to the curb and maybe have her do it in front of you and most definitely talk with her about it and tell her how it's making you feel. That you think if what you two have is real then she shouldn't feel bad about telling him off at all whatever the situation. Who knows man...it could very easily escalate into something between those two after your next 'argument/fight' if she continues this texting relationship....

  • 7 years ago

    Your relationship won't work I other guys and gals are involved. My boyfriend doesn't like me texting guys and I won't do it because I love him and want his trust. My advice is even though it may be difficult is breaking up with her as it is too likely that she will cheat with the other guy or leave you for him.

  • 7 years ago

    Text him and ask him if he wants to scrap. Either he will pussy out or you guys will settle it.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Beat his *** you dont mess with some one elses woman **** HIM UP

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