My Mom Is Always Mad At Me?!?

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Okay so example, she throws stuff at me when she gets mad and slaps me, and cusses and calls me names. 
From today, I was talking to her about me and my friend's plans for the summer and one of our friends mom's had volunteered to take us on a trip an hour away to this cute little town to go to the little stores and go ice skating. 
My mom said no because she didn't really know the mom that well.
I said that she does because that's the mom that has taken me and my friends to places for our school trips, and my mom blew up at me and yelled about how that's because she always knows about everything and my mom never knows about anything! It's not my fault, and she got all mad at me when I was acting all excited and happy and calm, and I wasn't mad or yelling at her!
This happens literally every day! And now she's saying to forget about hanging out with any of my friends anytime soon. Please help! I really want to be able to have these plans with my friends but she always gets mad at me! HELP.

AJ · Accepted Answer

It is going to be ok! :) Your mom loves and cares for you and wants you to be safe. She may be going through her own distresses and not know how it affects you. Try talking to her respectfully and let her know how things that are said and done make you feel sad and distressed and that you need to be seen and heard.
What helps in any situation is prayer, yes prayer.
Because God Jehovah being his name Psalms 83:18 hears you Psalms 65:2-O Hearer of prayer, to you people of all sorts will come.
Please know you are going to be ok just take a breather and try to relax and not stress. Maybe your mom wants to spend quality time with you and does not know how to approach you. She does want to protect you from any possible harm even if it is not apparent to you. Give your mom time and she will come around, be patient and understanding and she will be the same with you.
Ask her how she is doing and let her know you love her, while doing so she will see that she needs to be careful how she responds and treats you, she will see you for the loving daughter you are and know you deserve to be talked to lovingly and respectfully. It takes one positive action to get things going in the right direction. It may distress you now about wanting to be with your friends, however, by working on your relationship with your mom it will build character and later a lasting relationship you can share with your children also. If your friends are truly your friends they will step back and allow you time to work on your family which later will help develop lasting friendships. Baby steps lead to bigger steps why not ask your mom if you can invite friends over and go from their. Maybe your mom also wants to be involved not only to protect you but be closer to you because she loves you and sooner or later you will be grown up.

encouraging information go to www.jw.org
go to Bible Teaching then Teenagers
Family-Why Won't My Parents Let Me Have Any Fun? How Can I Talk to My Parents About Their Rules? 
White Board Animations-Be Social-Network Smart 
What's a Real Friend? 
you can download all to phone and computer

Please know you are going to be ok you are NOT alone.. :)
Remember Jehovah God loves and cares for you very much!!!! 
1 Peter 5:7  :)

Lucy · Answer

Maybe she is going through menopause. My Mom was crazy and angry for years because of that. Just be patient, and be good, and things will eventually get better.

Anonymous · Answer

well it can be you maybe!?
just try to not be  bad boy and the a good boy for a week and youll see who she changes!

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