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Does my girlfriend respect me?

Hey guys, whenever my girlfriend is having a bad day she gets really angry. She becomes really bitchy and yells at everyone who doesn't do anything she wants. Whenever she yells at people or me I get angry. When I get angry at her, she looks at me and says I'm a jerk and an asshole. All I wanted to tell her was to calm down and stop being so mean.

When I text her about it all she does is admit she's mean but I feel so bad so I tell her it's my fault for some odd reason. Today she got mad again and yelled at me in front of everyone which got me so embarrassed and mad. What should I do? Thanks!

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  • 7 years ago

    I think something is probably bothering her and she doesn't know what to do, i know when i get mad i usually yell at my family because the source of frustration is impossible to fix. Or seems that way. My life is a nightmare, so she may be going through something that you don't know about. Anger is usually a cover up, most people are hurt and don't want to appear weak or helpless. I don't know if that's her problem though, some people are just cranky all the time. You should ask her. I wish i could help more! Good luck!

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  • 7 years ago

    Talk to her, try to find out what's going on if you don't know already and help her fix it.

  • 7 years ago

    To be honest your girlfriend should treat you different to others. If shes yelling at other people, you should be the one person she should be calm to and talk to about the problem. It is in some way a lack of respect but then again if shes so used to u apologising aftr then shes only going to keep behaving this way. Maybe talk to her and make her apologise for her own mistakes that way maybe she will think twice next time.

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