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i look too young for my age. What can i do to not look so young?
i just turned 23 and i still look like 13-15 years old. Sometimes i like it, other times i get really depressed over it when i think about all the things i cant do becoz of it. It's literally affecting my life! I used to care so much what people thought of my appearance. I dont care about their opinion as much now. I am very sensitive person, i feel like i am not good enough. I feel like everywhere i go, i get dirty looks. I can't go shopping on my own without people glaring at me. I can't get a job at all, I've been unemployed for 4years. I get so depressed and sad when people give me looks. I have never been to a night club or a pub. I know that i'll probably get stared at all night and i won't have any fun there, so i avoid those places all together. But i want to start going out and just do what normal 20-something year olds do. I'm 5ft and i dont know how much i weight but i look skinny. So not only am i skinny i am quiet short, thats why its worse 4me. How can i look a bid older for my age and appear more mature? I feel like sometimes i am being harrassed and judged like i did something wrong, all because i look young for my age. Help please :-'(.
3 Answers
- Anonymous7 years ago
Okay well first of all, having that kind of attitude is only bring you down. You shouldn't care what people think. Yeah yeah yeah...everyone says the same thing. But you have to prove yourself. Be outspoken, show that your more than what they think. But the most important part is proving it to yourself and knowing who you are. Like millly said, put heels on, buy some nice clothes, shower yourself and be confident. You'll be happier trust me :) if you go out looking like a bag of trash, that's how your gonna feel (unless you have real guts and don't give a damn.) Otherwise, dress nice and feel nice :) simple
- Anonymous7 years ago
Aw bless you.
When you go out put heels on, and a load of make up, do you hair really nice. Go in with a lot of friends and have a laugh" it only matters what you, your friends and family think, who cares about strangers. You'll never see them again so it's cool. Just don't think about it and be happy don't let this little thing get to you.
- 7 years ago
its not that simple guys, there are no heels that come in my size. I have very small feet. I can hardly find adult clothes that fit me when i go shopping let alone high heels and ****. If i put on heels i will get more stares and glares. I take pride in my appearance but it doesnt help peopel still look down at me becoz of my size. It doessnt matter what i wear, maybe if i put on sneakers and wear jeans i wont get may stares, but if i dress really well like my friends i get nasty looks. I have a gr8 attitude, like i said, sometimes i think about how i am going to look like when i am 50 and i smile, but then someone makes a ignorant comment and it makes me feel bad. or i see some of my high school friends from years ago and they have careers, some have babies and partners, and i have NOBODY. I was abused as a kid so i have a lot of self loath as well and very low selfesteem and strangers make it worse for me. I was really weird kid, i never spoke to anybody coz i was so shy. Today i just avoide certain pleasures in life and avoid certain ppl becoz i hate being judged and being mocked.
Source(s): Anyway both of your answers suck , so im not going to choose any of them. You dont relate and you dont know what i am going through.