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Should I talk to her about this?
My parents are constantly threatening to kick me out of their lives if I stay with my boyfriend. They have never spoken to him, they just know that he's 30 and has a kid. Im 22 so I don't think the age difference is such a huge issue. They just keep telling me he's got too much "excess baggage". I have thought a lot about this and I do think things might be a little harder for us if we choose to go further in our relationship, but it's worth it because this he's everything I want in a guy
My cousin is 19 and is dating a 32 year old, I wanted to talk to her cause she went through the same thing and eventually got what she wanted. The thing is, I'm worried that she will tell my other cousins who will tell their parents and then my whole family will think badly of me. What should I do?
4 Answers
- 7 years ago
If you are mature enough to take care of yourself and handle your own responsibilities, then, you can move out, but if you are still under the custody of your parents, do not try it.
You might move out and later on, you guys break up, whatcha gonna do next. Even if he promises to take care of you, don't move out till you are capable of sustaining yourself. As for the kid, I guess he aint much of a problem to you.
- 7 years ago
Think this through you are 22 its your time to have fun, chances are this is not going to last a life time so is he worth it!
1) are you ready to play the mommy role part time?
2) is he worth not being a part of your parents lives.
3) you say he "IS EVERYTHING YOU EVER WANTED IN A GUY" LOL your 22 what is EVERYTHING???
4) your cousin got what she wanted LOL what is that? As young adults you don't think about your future you only think about right now. #1 thought should be can and will he be able to provide for me in my future. He will have to pay child support for the rest of his life which is 33% of his pay (depends on where you live). Will he be able to buy a home, a new car when needed, food, etc. And forever you have to deal with the mother of the child. I hope your not a jealous person cause that's not an easy way to live. She will always be a part of his life. (another women). Starting off a relationship this way is never good, what you need to ask yourself is will it last. Then make your own decision.
- Anonymous7 years ago
You have to share with her than only you can get solution.
