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XOX asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 7 years ago

I am Miserable at home and want to move out but don't know how?

i live at home with family. no job and not much money. Everyday is a nightmare. I badly want to move out and start a new life. I cant stand being screamed at every single day! and barked at, its so irritating. I get treated like a child and everyone is always looking to start a fight with me for no reason. My sista is a sociopath and a bully and i HATE her. We used to fight, and iv always forgiven her and moved on, but recentlty she destroyed my laptop and i lost everything on tht laptop. Now i am pissed and i wont speak to her at all and i have no interest in talking to her ever again as long as i live. it took me a while to realize that shes a horrible persona and a BULLY, and that she will NEVER change. She loves to turn things into to something big and starts a massive fight. And of course my mom defends her ALL THE TIME. My mom thinks i should respect my sista more, but i am also an adult and also deserve respect and i dont get any from my sista. She thinks i shud just respect her and deal with it. Shes horrible and i hate her so bad. I want to move out to be on my own, live on my own and not having to answer to anyone. I feel like evryone in my family hates me too. All my mom does , is talk poorly about me to guests and family memebers. And also she says to my face that i am horrible person and that i am bad person. But i am soo tired and exausted from the all the bullying. I cant get a job anywhere. I am so miserable!!!

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  • 7 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    You should consider moving in with a family member or friend, but do not make it a permanent thing. When you ask them, let them know your plan and how long you may have to be there in order to get everything in order to move out.

    Your plan should be:

    Look for a job, EVERYDAY

    Work as many hours as you can

    SAVE SAVE SAVE money

    & begin looking for an apartment. (google for apartments, the classifieds in the item, craigslist is pretty good when you need to find a really good deal)

  • Ajay D
    Lv 6
    7 years ago

    You can get a job if you convince the employers that you will work very hard on a low salary. After getting experience your salary may double or triple itself. try in small companies, offices and shops. After you get good experience, you can get into good companies. IF you do not get a job in six months, be ready to work hard in the desired field for free. Do not immediately take even a paying job in other fields if that will not help in long term in future.

  • Allie
    Lv 4
    7 years ago

    You will move out in time when you find your feet.

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