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Why do I always daydream about our future?

I've always been the same with guys I liked whether I was dating them or not. I just can't go with the flow and live in the moment sometimes.

When I really like a guy, it doesn't matter if I won't be able to see them for the next three months or if I'm not sure about his feelings, I start daydreaming about our future together. I imagine meeting his parents, I imagine conversations and I have fantasies.

I know it's natural but I can't help it and I start daydreaming every day. How unhealthy is it if you're not yet sure about the other person's feelings?

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  • 7 years ago

    It's a girl thing I guess

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    I think it's ok as long as you understand that the other person may not replicate your feelings. There is a difference when you daydream and think it is the reality and when you daydream and fully understand that you are just dreaming.

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