What should I do with this girl?

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Ok here's the situation. I've been talking to this girl online and lately meeting her too. Met twice. She used to like me but is in a relationship now. I've been to visit her home and she was fine with that. But the last time I mentioned visiting her and hanging out  she's telling me it not a good idea, cos of bf blah blah...she doesn't want to get too close to me and so on but is fine to hangout elsewhere...

I feel hurt. And I told it seems so sudden and unexpected. I feel she just trying to friend zone me maybe? Maybe She doesn't find me attractive enough to be with? Perhaps even finds me annoying?

What should I do? I want to stop talking to her for a few days and do other things to occupy my mind and show her I'm not needy and dependent on her. She tells me she needs to take a step back.. So I dunno what to do really or how to interpret it. What do you guys think?

Ladies, please help out, guys too. Thanks!!

Aidan · Accepted Answer

I'm in your shoes kinda :( met this girl online *she's 17 I'm 16* and we really hit it off and one night I went to meet her but it was only for 2 mins because her dad was coming home and it was like 11 at night but we both said hi and she went in for a hug. I hugged her and then to show her I was not ******* around I gave her ass a sqeeze. That was 3 nights ago.... She always says she can meet me onthursday but then texted me saying she had a appointment bla then I replied look do you even want to see me? She said yes so it might happen this week end or next Thursday :\ sucks how she is so busy but she has told me multiple times that she likes me so I guess its just bad timing that I can't meet her for like a week but we only live like 15 min walk away fro each other. :( I really like her a lot but she said at this time she's not looking for a relationship but agreed to go on a date with me soon so I guess it's not out of the question?

I'm always the one that has to text first or fb her first and a lot of the times it feels like she's not interested in me but when we video call she gets horny and all interested I guess it'd somewhat like what your going thru idk :\

I'm always the one that has to text first or fb her first and a lot of the times it feels like she's not interested in me but when we video call she gets horny and all interested I guess it'd somewhat like what your going thru idk :&#92;

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