Am I wasting my time with this girl?

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Please excuse my bad grammer.

So to make a long story short I met this girl a few years ago. We are both in the military. I had the biggest crush on her. I took her to a dance and found that I really liked her and I asked her to be my girlfriend. She said no she just wanted to be friends and she left.

She's stationed outside my hometown and when I would go on leave I would visit her. The last time I visited her she kissed me out of no where and we made out before we left.

We got deployed together and I tried to kiss her like before but she wouldn't let me and said we are just friends. She then asked how I felt about being in the friend zone? I told her she was about to find out and I friend zoned her.

Now she's always in my room trying to cuddle. Just the other day while I was laying down she layed right on top of me and put her nose on mine. Our faces were so close we could have kissed but nothing happened?

I saw her the next day with another guy and I haven't heard from her since than. What do I do?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It sounds like she is playing with your feelings :/ Would you really want a girl like this? It sounds like she has bad character! Yes you are wasting your time with this girl! Stop all contact with her!

? · Answer

You're most likely wasting your time, but if you really want to try to make things work with her, you have to understand something about the way that she's thinking. She wants you to take initiative. The reason she keeps going back and forth about being in a relationship is that she's testing you to try to make you show how willing you are to stay committed. It's a sick, twisted game, that you really shouldn't take part of. But if you want to play it, be more masculine and commanding.

Anonymous · Answer

Well it sounds like she's just playing around with you. She is only interested when she is in the mood... It also sounds like she is seeing how far she can get with you & likes being in control by rejecting you & being able to have you whenever SHE FEELS LIKE IT.

I wouldn't trust her because it sounds like she likes the attention from multiple guys, who knows how many she has been with & likes playing around with you to see how much she can lead you on just to reject you.

Faith · Answer

Yeah your wasting your time. She doesn't deserve you at all. But you will soon find the girl that deserves you. do not waste your time on her. Cut her off.

Silence · Answer

She's playing with your feelings , these kind of girls need to be killed so don't ever talk to this ************

Brat · Answer

Regardless of why she does the things she does... one thing is very clear.

She is not emotionally invested in you. Her heart is not in it. Accept that... and go from there.

whyskyhigh · Answer

stop being cruel
give her a chance

women do not like violence
ask your mother

Anonymous · Answer

she sounds like a whore. your wasting your time ;-;

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