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Why is my sister so mean to me?

One example of her meanness is that once i got a new outfit and when my mum wasnt looking she told me that i looked horrible in it and when she got a new outfit i told her that she looked nice and she stuck her tongue out at me!!! we're fine normally but she's just getting worse and worse :(. No this isn't puberty, it's just her. Pls help me because she sometimes makes me cry :'(

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  • 7 years ago

    First of all-CALM DOWN. That meanness isn't that huge. What-it's mainly her mood. How old are you&she? If you're quite a few years younger, than I can relate. My sister is 6 years older, and I've had those moments. She's just going through certain moods and sometimes either wants to have some fun, or just wants to be left alone. That happens sometimes, as the older child often feels they always have to entertain and be nice to the small one.

    Let her be in the next few days. Don't cry. Crying doesn't help and it usually makes her more mad, and the others around you get mad at her, which is another problem. You're making too big of a deal out of this. Settle down for let's ay a week, then you can get very social and active again. If she gets better, then go ahead. It's moods.

    Another thing might be is that she's going through something. Maybe she broke up with her boyfriend, maybe her friend moved away, maybe she got a bad grade. This reflects on how she acts around others. Let her cool off, as she may not want to talk about it. Come back to her after a week, and try to make some socialisation. If she's still mad/mean to you, post another question or send me an email. It might be of something else.

    Don't worry, probably nothing bad is happening. It's going to be fine :)

    -Ingrid

    Source(s): Life Experience
  • 7 years ago

    sisters are like that…It's love and hate relationship but trust me she is a god's gift in your life…one day you will agree for sure

  • 7 years ago

    Just ignore her she's jealous and has issues maybe a friend is messing with her or she is just a hateful person u can't do anything just stay away from her u keep trying to get her approvel ur setting it self up to get ur feelings hurt

  • 7 years ago

    Thanks, it's nice to know that someone else has gone through the same thing :)

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