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Double standard?
My girlfriend likes other athletes and actors on tv, she tells me about it and I have no problem with it. Just recently I made a comment on FB about on a celebrity how hot she was. This popped up in her news feed and now she is super upset at this and we may break up. She claims I'm not the person she thought I was. I told her she does the same thing and she says I'm like all the other men. Put the blame on her after I know I did wrong. I don't think she will forgive me. It's a long distance relationship and she is coming to stay for a month. Is this worth going on? She keeps throwing it in my face. And compares me to her ex who has done far worse things than I have. What should I do?
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- ?Lv 77 years agoFavorite Answer
Not exactly..she made her comments about celebs to you...you went and wrote for the electronic world to see that you thought a celeb was hot so there is a slight difference...your proclamation of stardust crush is far more public than hers...see the difference?..so this could be salvageable if you want to...first tell her you want to sit down and have a heart to heart..then apologize to her b/c she has to be slightly embarrassed that her bf is singing the praises of someone else on FB for all to see..then reassure her that you did not think it before posting and won't do it again...and don't...but if the relationship is not what you really want then just let it be and let her know it maybe time to move on.
- 7 years ago
That is a double standard. However, it isn't worth fighting about. She may have some insecurities about your faithfulness to her so instead remind her that you only see her in the relationship. If this is the reason your relationship comes to an end, I also wouldn't sweat it. It's not worth continuing in a relationship that's easily rocked by an issue such as this. But ultimately you know her best. I wish you all the best!
- Anonymous7 years ago
First rule in relationships: This may stupid, but the girl must comment on celebrities because they don't get so into it. They might kiss their magazine picture, but they know they will never get said rich man. Men / Boys on the other hand, can not comment on the looks of said celebrity. If they do, they are accused of "Liking their ***" or "Thinking they are hot".
BETTER ADVICE: Girls use the word "Hot" like its candy. Don't sweat it, but, what you need to do is remind her about all the times she talks about celebrities.
- 7 years ago
don't let her compare and also us girls don't like it when guys say girls are hot its like only we can do that if you deal with her comparing you than you must be a good guy if you love her then you will know if you should continue
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- I Love♥BirdyLv 57 years ago
Double standards suck! She compares you to her ex and other men? It sounds like she has issues. You need to find a better girl!
