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Can a drug enabling parent become hostile when his or her child chooses to quit?
I have a cousin that was getting pain pills from his mom. She was always reluctant to appease him, but he was manipulative and could always talk her into giving him pills. This went on for years. Recently he chose to go thru the painful process of detox and is now clean, but he has expressed to me how hurt he is by the way his mom is now treating him. Saying things like how she doubts he's even sober, or that eventually he'll relapse. He told me she has been treating him like garbage and showing him zero respect or encouragement. She's acting borderline evil, as if she wants him to start taking drugs again. She degrades him and verbally abuses him and she never did that when he was using. There must be some kind of phycological explanation because if there isn't then the devil must be real. Any thoughts? And no it's not me.
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- Anonymous7 years ago
No i don't think it's the devil i think she's hurt. Sometimes when someone has put someone through discomfort like supplying pills with reluctance and then they turn around and become sober all of it in her mind was for nothing. You did say she was manipulated and she perhaps even discovered that and is still angry, it isn't nice being manipulated it makes you appear weak minded. I didn't see a sorry in your question either which makes it look like there's lose ends, drug substances do tear people appart and leave a sense of mistrust and doubt, he should try to be responsible and remove her doubt. If that doesn't work at least he will be the better person :)
- ?Lv 57 years ago
Oh yea - misery LOVES company, and misery HATES it when they are noticed or critisized by someone who WAS as miserable as they are.
That woman is clearly evil.