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Girlfriend texts guy behind back?

The reason why I don't like it when my girlfriend texts other guys is because the last time she texted a guy he was flirting with her and she went with it. She didn't stop him.

Now she promises not to text other guys.

I then realize I was a bit controlling because she didn't want to upset me by texting other guys.

I told her than and I said that as long as she is 100% honest with me and who she texts, then she could text anyone.

I asked who else she's been texting but me and it was one of my friends. I knew they texted before because she told me she only texted him once to ask him a question about school. She said they have been texting a lot more now. About every other day or so. She didn't tell me they were texting until now.

Why did she text that guy when she knows it would upset me? She even told me she wouldn't because she knows that would harm me. She never told me she was texting someone else until I asked her.

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    You shouldn't date her.

  • 7 years ago

    Your friend wants to **** her, and she just has a new friend, she probably thinks nothing of it more then that! But let her have her freedom, you do kinda sound controlling

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    If that's who you really want to date, then you should talk to her. She obviously doesn't care what you think and is going to do it anyway. Hey, but that's your girlfriend so...

    Source(s): Common sense
  • 7 years ago

    She might feel the need for male attention that you possibly.aren't giving. I know this from experience. My fiancé and I have been together three years, and trust me they were rough. When I didn't feel wanted I would always talk to my guy best

    friend bc he filled that void? It's not to scare you lol. But ya really need to communicate as a couple. Explain your reasoning and let her state hers. It's all about compromise. If see does want to talk to this guy, make her keep all texts until you see there is nothing to worry about. And no late night texting or something could be an option

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  • 7 years ago

    She probly sees him as a friend but youre friends a douchebag so i would stop talking to him

  • 7 years ago

    Cut her off. Sorry dude.

  • jane
    Lv 5
    7 years ago

    Lol

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