Is this a normal life for a 22 y/o girl?

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I'm a 22 y/o girl that moved across the us to live with my grandparents over a year ago. Since the move I have no social life. All I do is work and come home. I've met very few people and don't have friends to hang out with. I am miserable. I have no family that I'm close with. I don't speak to my dad and my mom passed away. The loneliness and lack of passion in my life has me so depressed for months now. 
  I don't know what to do. I don't have options. I can't just move again. I just want excitement. I see my peers living it up and I'm here crying myself to sleep every night because I don't feel loved. I have no significance. I want something of my own that can't be taken away from me. I think I deserve comfort and happiness and love. Does anyone have any advice or personal experience that could help me or cheer me up? :(

Ayush · Answer

Come on, youre 22 years old. And that too a girl. You have so many possibilities. Best think for ypu is to get marriied to a good man i guess. Really, thats best way, better than having dozens of friends, though that is also necessary.
look at me,i am a 16 y o boy. So young age and i am supposed to play out with friends, like cricket or soccer, or experimenting in labs... but due to circumstances, i am inside a room since an year, apparently. I seldomly move out. My mom lives far away, my dad comes at home at night, i can't go to school for some reason( i dislike schools). I seldomely go out for a 2 minute walk. But when alone, it is no fun. I crave talking to boys but i don't get chances. Theyre all busy. Im also, with my studies and all, but i just can't move out.
sometkmes i pull my hair and get anxious and start hitting the wall, i think loneliness can definitely make a man mad.
i have friends but they live too far away.
im stuck. Really. I need a sincere companion.

Anonymous · Answer

Things are hard and i'm sorry you feel that lonely. If you need someone to talk to i can be that person. I'm not really a one statement kinda person and i don't know what to say, but i hate knowing someone feels bad

Anonymous · Answer

It all starts from you,if you don't appreciate and love yourself as you wanna be loved,then you definitely ain't on the right road cause it all starts from you and the  right people your supposed to meet will flood in your way...talking through experience...Make yourself HAPPY and have the right mind-set before anything else

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Is this a normal life for a 22 y/o girl?

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