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Do you also think my boyfriend is hiding something?

Thursday we spent our two month anni together (his idea to celebrate it by cooking for me). We watched part of a movie and he told me that sat we would go to dinner then finish the movie and walk around the park. Friday we spent the holiday w our families. Saturday comes and by 1 pm i dont hear from him. We didnt plan a time but he mentioned something about possibly going out w friends so wed meet early. I figured maybe he slept in and then i got worried something happened. Just as he has done, i texted to ask if we were still hanging out today. He responds two hrs later we can later if im still hungry, but he wont be free until next wednesday after that to hang out.

He made it sound like this was out of the blue when we planned to finish the movie already! Then hours later, when im on my way over there he asks how far i am bc he wanted to go somewhere quick. When i got to his place he was just coming back from some bar and talking on the phone. I said if he wanted to hang w his friends he shldve said that! He says he was going to see first if i was coming over or not. That made no sense to me bc thursday he told me to come over. Then he was all lovey dovey and kept looking at me a lot. Then he wants to make plans for wednesday and thursday (will even take off work that day to spend w me) and when i looked at him funny he asked if i was sick of him. Is his behavior odd?

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  • 7 years ago
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    Maybe a bit odd, but I don't think that he's hiding anything. I think that when he suggested that you have dinner the next day, that he didn't commit to those plans fully, he may have even forgot, or the following day not want to do it anymore. It seems like he's a little distracted and has other things on his plate other than you. Which is okay, but I think his priorities are a little out of whack. Maybe he's trying to make time for other things outside of the relationship, but doesn't really know how to let you down when he wants to do other things that don't involve you. I think its a good sign that he was still being lovey dovey and wanted to make plans for Wed and Thurs. Give it some time and see if he follows through (which I think he will).

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Find a real man that would like to spend time with you and be honest. Don't stress out, and don't stick to a relationship that are causing problems, either sort them out and confront him or live free and let someone else catch your eye

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    U are not the only one in his life

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    He keeps you available for when there is no other woman. Wake up and smell the coffee. Find yourself another man. or two men.

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    If there is true love, you can find a way.

  • 7 years ago

    you should ask him whats up with his behavior maybe something is bothering him

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