Juliette A

I think it's a misunderstanding. I let my guy friend know I'd give him space after a few times he wasn't responding to some of my messages. I get the feeling he may be going through something and wanted to take any pressure off. I made it known I wasn't upset, appreciated our interactions, and hoped to leave our dynamic on good terms. What did I do wrong? We've had communication issues in the past so I was trying to be open with him as we rebuild the friendship and let him know I can understand if he just needs space. I thought I was being a good friend. Instead he blocked me.

My boyfriend of 7months says he cares about me, but when i want him to pick me up for dates he doesnt want to do it. I dont want to act like a princess, but in the beginning my boyfriend would pick me up and sometimes i would meet him. It was fair. Now im always the one going to him, and if i ask him to get me itsclear by his body language he doesnt like tto. "He hates traffic." But a 20 min car ride takes me 1.5 hours by bus, plus i have to walk 6 blocks after to his place. Its cold n snowy. I have an overloaded backpack since im in grad school.

It makes me feel like he doesnt care about me or think im important enough. This is really impt to me to the point id break up yet he doesnt seem to get it. I told him it upsets me and nothing changed. I feel a bf who cares wouldnt want me to take the bus (which i already take constantly for school, work, n errands n he knows how stressed out i get by it), he woulnt want me walking in the cold and snow if he wanted to see me so bad. He says he wants to make me happy and help me noot stress, yet the one thing that would do that he doesnt do! Am i being unfair? I dont ask him to drive me everwhere. I feel ive made seeing me too easy for him n now hes lazy/complacent.

My boyfriend of 7months says he cares about me, but when i want him to pick me up for dates he doesnt want to do it. I dont want to act like a princess, but in the beginning my boyfriend would pick me up and sometimes i would meet him. It was fair. Now im always the one going to him, and if i ask him to get me itsclear by his body language he doesnt like tto. "He hates traffic." But a 20 min car ride takes me 1.5 hours by bus, plus i have to walk 6 blocks after to his place. Its cold n snowy. I have an overloaded backpack since im in grad school.

It makes me feel like he doesnt care about me or think im important enough. This is really impt to me to the point id break up yet he doesnt seem to get it. I told him it upsets me and nothing changed. I feel a bf who cares wouldnt want me to take the bus (which i already take constantly for school, work, n errands n he knows how stressed out i get by it), he woulnt want me walking in the cold and snow if he wanted to see me so bad. He says he wants to make me happy and help me noot stress, yet the one thing that would do that he doesnt do! Am i being unfair? I dont ask him to drive me everwhere. I feel ive made seeing me too easy for him n now hes lazy/complacent.

My bf of 4 months and I were joking around and he said "I love you, but Im going to throw you over the balcony." I know its too early to say I love you, that was the first he said it. i got all excited and he said he didnt mean it that way. He likes me A LOT but not love, that takes time. He will tell me when he loves me.

I thought he did bc, hes been much more into me and our rs lately. He introduced me to all his friends and siblings, he met my parents, he helped me move homes, find a new job, buys me surprise gifts all the time, called me pretty after 4 months of dating before it was always cute! He even told me im unique and there is no one else like me. He constantly wants to hang out, and ive spent all weeknights at his place last week. When he went out of town he said it may sound lame and girlish but he was going to miss me and would call. He even left me a shirt of his while he left bc I love his scent! Are these things a man would do if he is NOT in love? All my friends get guys that fall in love with them after 3 months, but.it seems hr may take awhile. What gives?

My bf of 4 months and I were joking around and he said "I love you, but Im going to throw you over the balcony." I know its too early to say I love you, that was the first he said it. i got all excited and he said he didnt mean it that way. He likes me A LOT but not love, that takes time. He will tell me when he loves me.

I thought he did bc, hes been much more into me and our rs lately. He introduced me to all his friends and siblings, he met my parents, he helped me move homes, find a new job, buys me surprise gifts all the time, called me pretty after 4 months of dating before it was always cute! He even told me im unique and there is no one else like me. He constantly wants to hang out, and ive spent all weeknights at his place last week. When he went out of town he said it may sound lame and girlish but he was going to miss me and would call. He even left me a shirt of his while he left bc I love his scent! Are these things a man would do if he is NOT in love? All my friends get guys that fall in love with them after 3 months, but.it seems hr may take awhile. What gives?

My bf of 4 months and I were joking around and he said "I love you, but Im going to throw you over the balcony." I know its too early to say I love you, that was the first he said it. i got all excited and he said he didnt mean it that way. He likes me A LOT but not love, that takes time. He will tell me when he loves me.

I thought he did bc, hes been much more into me and our rs lately. He introduced me to all his friends and siblings, he met my parents, he helped me move homes, find a new job, buys me surprise gifts all the time, called me pretty after 4 months of dating before it was always cute! He even told me im unique and there is no one else like me. He constantly wants to hang out, and ive spent all weeknights at his place last week. When he went out of town he said it may sound lame and girlish but he was going to miss me and would call. He even left me a shirt of his while he left bc I love his scent! Are these things a man would do if he is NOT in love? All my friends get guys that fall in love with them after 3 months, but.it seems hr may take awhile. What gives?

I asked my boyfriend of 3-4 monrhs if he feels emotion for me during sex. He quickly said no and then added "but i feel closer to you." This hurt me bc i am an emotional romantic person and i want to find lasting love. I know its too early to be in love and im not not, but it worries me that he may not.feel any deep emotional connection with me. Woupdnt he know by now how he feels about me!? If he is just in it for fun and sex but can never fall in love w me then i need to move on and find someone who can. Am i beimg unfair? Should i give it more time or is it if he hasnt developed strong feelings by now its never gonna happen?

bf of 3 months told me he doesnt really feel emotion during sex. For him its just pleasure, while for me its pleasure and a way to emotionally connect. Lately sex has been better than ever and he loves to please and kiss and cuddle. He is very affectionate and caring outside of sex, so i made the mistake of asking if he felt anything emotionally when we have sex now that weve been together sometime.? He said no, but he feels closer to me. I dont know what that means. How can you like your girlfriend but have no emotions during sex? Does he not care about me afterall?

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My bf of 3 months told me he doesnt really feel emotion during sex. For him its just pleasure, while for me its pleasure and a way to emotionally connect. Lately sex has been better than ever and he loves to please and kiss and cuddle. He is very affectionate and caring outside of sex, so i made the mistake of asking if he felt anything emotionally when we have sex now that weve been together sometime.? He said no, but he feels closer to me. I dont know what that means. How can you like your girlfriend but have no emotions during sex? Does he not care about me afterall?

My bf of 3 months told me he doesnt really feel emotion during sex. For him its just pleasure, while for me its pleasure and a way to emotionally connect. Lately sex has been better than ever and he loves to please and kiss and cuddle. He is very affectionate and caring outside of sex, so i made the mistake of asking if he felt anything emotionally when we have sex now that weve been together sometime.? He said no, but he feels closer to me. I dont know what that means. How can you like your girlfriend but have no emotions during sex? Does he not care about me afterall?

My bf of 3 months told me he doesnt really feel emotion during sex. For him its just pleasure, while for me its pleasure and a way to emotionally connect. Lately sex has been better than ever and he loves to please and kiss and cuddle. He is very affectionate and caring outside of sex, so i made the mistake of asking if he felt anything emotionally when we have sex now that weve been together sometime.? He said no, but he feels closer to me. I dont know what that means. How can you like your girlfriend but have no emotions during sex? Does he not care about me afterall?

My bf of 3 months makes a lot of money (not at all why i dated him. I already did the "sugar daddy" thing and realized I wanted a real relationship where I can count on the other person esp emotionally.) But, part way through our ship I lost my job. I never made much to begin with, but it always seems to shock my bf whenever i bring up some tidbit about my financial situation. It has gotten worse to where im afraid i cant make rent coming up. People keep telling me i shld ask him, but i somehow feel wrong doing it.

Then i think if he really cares for me wouldnt he want to help me? He spendt over $200 on liquor and didnt bat an eye when i thought it was excessive. But when i tried to bring up how bad my situation has gotten he keeps changing the subject or just wont even respond (almost like he doesnt want to know). If he truely cared wouldnt he want to know and help me? Am I wrong here? He should know by now im not after his money. Even when i didnt have much i bought him gifts and treated here and there. I dont want to ask outright i want him.to offer, but he cant if he wont even hear how bad things are!

Ive done odd jobs here and there, but its still not enough. My religious dad doesnt like i sleep over my bfs house so he wont help and my mom is too poor.

My bf of 3 months makes a lot of money (not at all why i dated him. I already did the "sugar daddy" thing and realized I wanted a real relationship where I can count on the other person esp emotionally.) But, part way through our ship I lost my job. I never made much to begin with, but it always seems to shock my bf whenever i bring up some tidbit about my financial situation. It has gotten worse to where im afraid i cant make rent coming up. People keep telling me i shld ask him, but i somehow feel wrong doing it.

Then i think if he really cares for me wouldnt he want to help me? He spendt over $200 on liquor and didnt bat an eye when i thought it was excessive. But when i tried to bring up how bad my situation has gotten he keeps changing the subject or just wont even respond (almost like he doesnt want to know). If he truely cared wouldnt he want to know and help me? Am I wrong here? He should know by now im not after his money. Even when i didnt have much i bought him gifts and treated here and there. I dont want to ask outright i want him.to offer, but he cant if he wont even hear how bad things are!

Ive done odd jobs here and there, but its still not enough. My religious dad doesnt like i sleep over my bfs house so he wont help and my mom is too poor.

In my dreams that is haha. After two months of dating this guy im starting to have doubts and trust issues bc he was hiding something minor from me. I told him communication is very important to me. Anyway im wondering if hes too immature for me as i usually date older and kind of longed for the guy i used to see. We broke up bc i wasnt a priority. When together he was so chivalrous and romantic but apart he ignored me and barely took time to spend time with me. I want both, the vey attentive boyfriend together AND apart. My new boyfriend isnt as romantic or chivalrous, but he tries.

Anyway, i dreamt that i called up my ex and went out w him. Feeling good i went back on the dating site i met my guy and found someone else. We went out and i had sex w him. He then told me he wasnt seeking a rs and i got in std (in my dream)! This is partly why i am so greatful to have found my guy. He didnt play games when we met and he seems sincere, but what does this mean? Shld i break up with him or stick it out if i have doubts?

Thursday we spent our two month anni together (his idea to celebrate it by cooking for me). We watched part of a movie and he told me that sat we would go to dinner then finish the movie and walk around the park. Friday we spent the holiday w our families. Saturday comes and by 1 pm i dont hear from him. We didnt plan a time but he mentioned something about possibly going out w friends so wed meet early. I figured maybe he slept in and then i got worried something happened. Just as he has done, i texted to ask if we were still hanging out today. He responds two hrs later we can later if im still hungry, but he wont be free until next wednesday after that to hang out.

He made it sound like this was out of the blue when we planned to finish the movie already! Then hours later, when im on my way over there he asks how far i am bc he wanted to go somewhere quick. When i got to his place he was just coming back from some bar and talking on the phone. I said if he wanted to hang w his friends he shldve said that! He says he was going to see first if i was coming over or not. That made no sense to me bc thursday he told me to come over. Then he was all lovey dovey and kept looking at me a lot. Then he wants to make plans for wednesday and thursday (will even take off work that day to spend w me) and when i looked at him funny he asked if i was sick of him. Is his behavior odd?

Thursday we spent our two month anni together (his idea to celebrate it by cooking for me). We watched part of a movie and he told me that sat we would go to dinner then finish the movie and walk around the park. Friday we spent the holiday w our families. Saturday comes and by 1 pm i dont hear from him. We didnt plan a time but he mentioned something about possibly going out w friends so wed meet early. I figured maybe he slept in and then i got worried something happened. Just as he has done, i texted to ask if we were still hanging out today. He responds two hrs later we can later if im still hungry, but he wont be free until next wednesday after that to hang out.

He made it sound like this was out of the blue when we planned to finish the movie already! Then hours later, when im on my way over there he asks how far i am bc he wanted to go somewhere quick. When i got to his place he was just coming back from some bar and talking on the phone. I said if he wanted to hang w his friends he shldve said that! He says he was going to see first if i was coming over or not. That made no sense to me bc thursday he told me to come over. Then he was all lovey dovey and kept looking at me a lot. Then he wants to make plans for wednesday and thursday (will even take off work that day to spend w me) and when i looked at him funny he asked if i was sick of him. Is his behavior odd?

Ive been seeing this guy for two months. We met onlibe a few weeks before that. I told him i wanted to get to know him better before sex, so we waited almost a month and the first time he couldnt even get it up he was so nervous! After i told him i was jealous he was seeing other girls, he told me he got rid of them as he sees me as longer term potential and asked me to be his girlfriend.

My dad now wanted to meet him (they never met.any guy i dated as i was a late boomer. Im 25 and my guy is 26). I waited three weeks before asking my guy to meet my dad. He was super nervous, but said he would do it for me and we scheduled it.

It was so awkward bc my dad basically interrogated him (hes traditional and from another country and both parents are religious. I am somewhat and my boyfriend isnt at all though he was raised catholic). My dad asked if he was there to propose and if.not what were his intentions. He said to take time to get to know me as we havent known each other that long. I agreed n that eventually i want marriage, but i dont know if its him.

After, i asked my bf his thoughts on marriage that he really doesnt believe in the institution and feel people just do it because its time, but arent happy. He saiid he prob will get married one day since he wants kids and society expexts it of him. I told him how i think marriage is the ultimate symbol of love and commitment.he gotit.he knos i wont live w a guy unless were engaged. Does it sound like our rs is doomed!?

Ive been seeing this guy for two months. We met onlibe a few weeks before that. I told him i wanted to get to know him better before sex, so we waited almost a month and the first time he couldnt even get it up he was so nervous! After i told him i was jealous he was seeing other girls, he told me he got rid of them as he sees me as longer term potential and asked me to be his girlfriend.

My dad now wanted to meet him (they never met.any guy i dated as i was a late boomer. Im 25 and my guy is 26). I waited three weeks before asking my guy to meet my dad. He was super nervous, but said he would do it for me and we scheduled it.

It was so awkward bc my dad basically interrogated him (hes traditional and from another country and both parents are religious. I am somewhat and my boyfriend isnt at all though he was raised catholic). My dad asked if he was there to propose and if.not what were his intentions. He said to take time to get to know me as we havent known each other that long. I agreed n that eventually i want marriage, but i dont know if its him.

After, i asked my bf his thoughts on marriage that he really doesnt believe in the institution and feel people just do it because its time, but arent happy. He saiid he prob will get married one day since he wants kids and society expexts it of him. I told him how i think marriage is the ultimate symbol of love and commitment.he gotit.he knos i wont live w a guy unless were engaged. Does it sound like our rs is doomed!?

Ive been seeing this guy for two months. We met onlibe a few weeks before that. I told him i wanted to get to know him better before sex, so we waited almost a month and the first time he couldnt even get it up he was so nervous! After i told him i was jealous he was seeing other girls, he told me he got rid of them as he sees me as longer term potential and asked me to be his girlfriend.

My dad now wanted to meet him (they never met.any guy i dated as i was a late boomer. Im 25 and my guy is 26). I waited three weeks before asking my guy to meet my dad. He was super nervous, but said he would do it for me and we scheduled it.

It was so awkward bc my dad basically interrogated him (hes traditional and from another country and both parents are religious. I am somewhat and my boyfriend isnt at all though he was raised catholic). My dad asked if he was there to propose and if.not what were his intentions. He said to take time to get to know me as we havent known each other that long. I agreed n that eventually i want marriage, but i dont know if its him.

After, i asked my bf his thoughts on marriage that he really doesnt believe in the institution and feel people just do it because its time, but arent happy. He saiid he prob will get married one day since he wants kids and society expexts it of him. I told him how i think marriage is the ultimate symbol of love and commitment.he gotit.he knos i wont live w a guy unless were engaged. Does it sound like our rs is doomed!?

Ive been seeing this guy for two months. We met onlibe a few weeks before that. I told him i wanted to get to know him better before sex, so we waited almost a month and the first time he couldnt even get it up he was so nervous! After i told him i was jealous he was seeing other girls, he told me he got rid of them as he sees me as longer term potential and asked me to be his girlfriend.

My dad now wanted to meet him (they never met.any guy i dated as i was a late boomer. Im 25 and my guy is 26). I waited three weeks before asking my guy to meet my dad. He was super nervous, but said he would do it for me and we scheduled it.

It was so awkward bc my dad basically interrogated him (hes traditional and from another country and both parents are religious. I am somewhat and my boyfriend isnt at all though he was raised catholic). My dad asked if he was there to propose and if.not what were his intentions. He said to take time to get to know me as we havent known each other that long. I agreed n that eventually i want marriage, but i dont know if its him.

After, i asked my bf his thoughts on marriage that he really doesnt believe in the institution and feel people just do it because its time, but arent happy. He saiid he prob will get married one day since he wants kids and society expexts it of him. I told him how i think marriage is the ultimate symbol of love and commitment.he gotit.he knos i wont live w a guy unless were engaged. Does it sound like our rs is doomed!?