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hemini and pisces sex question with OTHER ASPECTS/planets?

bf of 3 months told me he doesnt really feel emotion during sex. For him its just pleasure, while for me its pleasure and a way to emotionally connect. Lately sex has been better than ever and he loves to please and kiss and cuddle. He is very affectionate and caring outside of sex, so i made the mistake of asking if he felt anything emotionally when we have sex now that weve been together sometime.? He said no, but he feels closer to me. I dont know what that means. How can you like your girlfriend but have no emotions during sex? Does he not care about me afterall?

His sun gemini, moon virgo, venus cancer, and mars pisces

Im sun pisces, moon aquarius, venus pisces, and mars taurus

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago
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    Don't be impressed or shocked that your gemini told you truthfully. That doesn't say anything about his character because it's typical of his sun sign. And realize if Gemini is in love he's super emotional. Lol my brother goes through multiple women, but when he found the one he was more emotional than i am. and more attentive. same with my gemini friends who are in good relationships or marriages. so this guy just isn't that into you. maybe he will be in the future, but who wants to wait around? he already knows you! it's been 3 months. Do you realize that Fire and Air decide super fast! So if he hasn't already he's not going to. That's not how Air signs work. Earth and Water are the signs you can stay with for a while and love and emotion will just grow. NOT Air and Fire. I think the answers you got were not very accurate unfortunately.

    I'm so glad I'm a water sign in an Air sign family lol. This is how they explained it to me, and it helps.

    It means sex and love are separate for him.

    (and to correct the other answerer sex is sex for him not emotion).

    he's probably just using you for sex because he doesn't feel that magnetic connection.

    you should know that time isn't going to solidify your relationship unless you already have that intense magnetic connection from the get go.

    sounds to me like you got into a luke warm relationship. you have a partner whose content with the way things are. but you feel like something is missing. THE LOVE! where is the love?!

    he doesn't love you.

    he likes to hang out with you, be around you, and the sex is great. what more could a guy want? well, a spiritual and loving connection with a partner! but this guy doesn't want that - he's not looking for it. and he's told you he hasn't found it with you. ouch. it's not just going to grow from nowhere, you have to realize this. maybe he's too immatuer to want a real relationship right now, let alone understand what one is??

    ditch him. honestly.

    Gemini - any of the air or fire signs in fact are a horrible combination for a water sign. because of this lack of emotion. so why are you so surprised your guy is typical textbook gemini?

    maybe your'e better as f*ck buddies or FWB. but this guy clearly doesn't understand what a connection is or should be, or that you NEED it to actually feel fulfilled.

    He may be attentive to your other needs, but he sure dropped the ball on the most important one. Love. Emotion. Connection. Magnetism. Depth. Intensiity. All of these are lacking in your relationship. Hate to break it to you but he might not be THE ONE.

    And don't go trying to fix this by explaining it to him - that's typical Pisces. If he didn't come to this conclusion, after this conversation, that you NEED this and it's important to you. He's just stupid or doesn't care. Eitherway, you don't need that in your life because you will get shafted.

    It's typical for pisces to hitch herself to a dead horse so to speak and stick with it. don't stay in a relationship that is not fulfilling. he had his shot. it's been a while. and he told you that emotion is just not there. you really need that pisces. that's why you asked him about it. don't keep going on with this guy. ditch him. you're incompatible.

    i hope this helps. sorry to hear about this! good luck!

    Source(s): Pisces with Gemini Mom/Brother
  • O
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    golly gosh girl... for females sex equals love and emotion for males sex equals sex

    the fact that he answered so honestly says a lot about his character which is good he could have lied

    don't go over analysing this or you will spoil what could become a really good relationship

    don't ask men about emotions don't ask men how do they feel or what are they thinking

    on the astrological side the water sign pisces will need to do the deep emotional sensitive stuff

    whereas the air sign gemini can not do deep can not do emotional does not understand the concept

    to make matters even more confusing both of you have a dual aspect the two fish of pisces and the twins of gemini can mean there is quite a crowd of four in the relationship

    an acquaintance married a gemini wife and always says when he comes down in the morning he never knows which version of his wife will be making coffee... think about it

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    I also think that there are other things that influence this choice such as the gender in question, the overall attractiveness of the individual, confidence level, the typical level of happiness of the individuals and their social setting. Example -- a male Scorpio might be more prone to sex addiction than a male Pisces in a society where male initiative is paramount, but in a social setting where women can take the initiative the male Pisces can be tapped for sex early on and then turn to sex for escape and create an addiction for himself. In that female initiative society, the male Pisces would be much more likely to make sex an addiction. This is why I think that in American society the greater odds would go to male Scorpios and female Pisces.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Unfortunately he is not very smart, it has nothing to do with astrology, it's just that some people run their mouths before they "run their brains". I am not sure how many times he does run his mouth, but it's all up to you if you want to put up with that. I think it's a flaw I would never wish to put up with, because I like smart individuals. It obviously did hurt you, which makes sense, as what kind of moron says something like that to his girlfriend? I mean, a girlfriend is obviously emotionally his girlfriend, but then again, people are morons and they are insecure and they need to lower your esteem in a way, so that is why this happened :/ Hope this helps :D

    Not everyone is thoughtful/smart. Glad you are though and you are able to see there is something wrong in what this guy said, and that is wrong (regardless of some astrology believer will make you think to put your esteem down). :D take care, bye :D

    It's entirely up to you. Keep track of that. Like, he did that this one time, next time, just leave and don't look back. I mean, seriously who the heck does he think he is he can tell women (he doesn't own) sh*t like that?

    Btw, what he said is obviously not true.

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  • Stop being so needy it's only three months it's easier for guys to not feel emotions or get attached as women during sex it takes longer for some guys it's something to do with their testosterone levels I don't remember the article I read it off & why bother listing his planet signs if ur not going to list his aspects degrees & houses pretty pointless

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