Please answer: how long does it take a man to fall for a woman?

The time it takes for people to fall on love is different for everyone, there's no single amount of time. It can be 3 months one person but 1 year for someone else. And a person can be in a relationship for 6 months and never fall in love with who their with.

If you're a teen, a lot of guys seem to think having a gf just means having someone to have sex with. And girls tend to want that strong bond and emotional connection. Since you want that, if your bf doesn't show you in other ways that he cares about you (like taking you out to dinner, affectionate with you other than times of sex, kisses and hugs you often, tells you you're special, etc), then I would move on and find the type of guy who will care about you more deeply than just wanting sex.

You've only been bf/gf for 3-4 months and you're already having sex? Dumb... just dumb.

If you want lasting love, you gotta wait a lot longer than that. If you appear to be too easy for sex, then a lot of guys will walk over you.

How long does it take? It varies. Guys can become interested just from the first sight.

Yes, he should know how he feels about you by now. But he's been too distracted!

So what if he doesn't feel a deep connection? His loss. :P

You need to make them determine/prove how they feel about you before having sex... always.

Us men are very sex-driven beings. You have to be careful with who you spend your time with.

Love has no boundaries. So who knows? He may be developing feelings for you or he is just using you for sex. He's suppose to have feelings like deep feelings by now. He probably might be using you. He may be even cheating on you. Who knows? Anyways, if it's been like a few months and he just said that he is closer to you, maybe it's time to find someone who would care for you more. For me, I would find a guy who would shows his affectionate to me often.

thank god for stupid f**ks