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this is so short please just answer! hes a gemini and im pisces?

My bf of 3 months told me he doesnt really feel emotion during sex. For him its just pleasure, while for me its pleasure and a way to emotionally connect. Lately sex has been better than ever and he loves to please and kiss and cuddle. He is very affectionate and caring outside of sex, so i made the mistake of asking if he felt anything emotionally when we have sex now that weve been together sometime.? He said no, but he feels closer to me. I dont know what that means. How can you like your girlfriend but have no emotions during sex? Does he not care about me afterall?

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago
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    This has nothing to do with your Sun signs .. Sun doesn't even have anything to do with love or emotions or sex. You are looking at the wrong astrological indicator. But then, you probably don't understand that Sun sign astrology isn't real astrology and doesn't give accurate answers.

    Look ..men are not women.

    Men take about 12 months of steady dating before they fall in love. Unless they are infatuated, in which case they fall hard and fast ..and then fall out later on just as hard and fast. Infatuation is NOT love.

    And not all men want a relationship. They all want sex, but some of them don't want a relationship. Maybe they are too busy, or maybe they are just having too much fun to settle down. THESE men do NOT fall in love, no matter how long you spend with them. Not until THEY are ready.

    Men feel about sex the way you feel about bonding/love/connection.

    For you, sex is a way to feel closer. For him, sex is just a physical pleasure.

    It's like this for all men. He might end up feeling emotions for you, but right now it's just sex.

    3 months together is NOT "some time together". It takes 2 years before lasting love even STARTS to grow. About 6 months for the psychologically-healthy female to become attached, and about 12 months for the same thing to happen for the psychologically-healthy guy.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    That is total bull with a capital "B"! Sorry, I don't agree with the other poster, that sex is just sex. It just doesn't work that way. Sex should be a bonding experience! To answer your question, use your gut about your relationship with him and if it something that you want to pursue, then you should do it. However, if you feel it is off for you emotionally, then you need to rethink about this and see what it is that you want from him.

  • Aaron
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    Gemini and Pisces are not compatible. So in order to run the relationship amount af adaptability and sacrifice needs to be more than normal. Now, its you who can only decide if the sacrifices worth this relationship or not. Pisces girls are adorable, emotional but intelligent. I know you will make the right choice.

    Source(s): Sixth Sense
  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Idk what he means. If you weren't really connected he wouldn't feel pleasure, I suppose, but I don't really know, as I am not a guy and I don't know how they feel during sex, but anatomically, I presume if the sex is consensual he does feel something or else he wouldn't be having it.

    I think that he is just confused with words and doesn't really know how to express himself, not everyone is "smart" with words. It is probably just a misunderstanding, if he repeats something a bit silly like that, just consider your health before committing to the relationship any further.

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  • ?
    Lv 5
    7 years ago

    He is more comfortable around you but to him, Sex is sex.. I'm pretty sure he does love you.. He's just keeping sex and emotion separate.

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