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Advice on something?

My bf recently got a hair cut that makes him look like a twink lol

(not that homosexuality is bad but think about it in the gf perspective JOKINGLY)

then today he got his ears pierced and he doesnt look the same and yes hair grows back and all but he seems to REALLY like this style he has found and No I am not breaking up with him but how do I put my thoughts to rest because the style doesnt suit him and he used to look really hot and now not so much and I really am not a fan by this whole style got any advice on how to like put the negative thoughts I have to rest?

Update:

I said to him "Yeah I like it do you?" and he said "Hell Yeah!" So I have a feeling he will keep his hair this way for awhile and yes it is his own body and I dont have much say but how do I tell my self that I should support what he does?

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  • 7 years ago

    my husband told me for years how to have my hair, until i got sick of it. at one point my hair was over 4 ft long and uncontrollable, and he even dyed it black once (a complete fail). i let him know that i didnt like it, and i have since kept it just below shoulder length, and i cut it yearly. its a simple as this, if you cant get past the hair cut, youre going to have real problems when real issues arise that you cant let go of.

    Source(s): Married for 16 yrs
  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Just go through old pictures of his old self together and casually say how you miss his old hair. Or something!

  • 7 years ago

    Well idk I mean in a relationship I believe that you should sacrifice some of the things you like to keep your significant other happy in my opinion but it has to be 50/50 it can't be something ridiculous like oh I only like blonde hair, dye your hair every month type of thing. I think you should tell him nicely like "oh I liked your hair longer, it was hot" idk :( my advice sucked

  • 7 years ago

    You can confront him. Tell it to him straight up

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    I'm sorry but I think he is turning full gay

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    think about all his good qualities and one that really works good for me is just kissing my bf it makes everything so much better

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