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was i raped?

Ok so I met this guy on May 31. He was FAR from a virgin and I was a virgin. He pursued me many times but he never got me. I preformed oral and anal sex on him but never had sexual intercourse. So last week he asked me to go over his house, and I said yes, I was thinking we would just chill but he asked right from the jump "are we gunna have sex?" and I said "do you have a condom?" and he said "no". So I was like I dont know but we still went to his room. he pulled my pants down and was trying to stick "it" in but I said no. So then I preformed oral sex on him. After that I was like let me pull up my pants and he flipped me over and got on top of me. I was pulling him closer for a kiss on the neck but then he was trying to put it in again. So I was yelling get off of me and he wouldnt listen. Then i started pushing him and yelling at him and he wouldnt. So finally he went in and then he said "Im already in so you might as well let me finish" So I did but ONLY because I knew that if i didnt it wouldnt have been consitutual sex. Do you think I was rapped? I mean I dont think I was because I led him on but I mean I never consented to having sex and now he is more forceful of me. Its like he wants me to keep having sex with him and when I dont he gets mad. He even drugged me once. Sorry for going on and on but do you think i was rapped?

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  • 7 years ago

    As long as he used force in any matter to have sex with you, yes it is considered rape. He even went on to penetrate you without permission after you persistently said no.

    Ask yourself: Did you want him to have sex with you? If the answer is no, which it clearly was, then he raped you.

    Why you haven't gotten him arrested yet is beyond me. He's clearly a danger to women. You even said he drugged you.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    When someone says no, it means no. If he continues, yes, it is considered rape.

  • Frank
    Lv 5
    7 years ago

    yes, the basic rule is if you did not want the sex yourself it's rape.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Yes call the police.

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Yes you where rapped.

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