Where is the error in my choice of women?

I think what you need to do is get new hobbies. Or join a club. Start a new sport or dancing. Then you will meet new people there and some of them will be nice single ladies. The plus point here will be that you two can base a friendship and move on to a serious relationship because of the common interest/s you share. I think most of your issues will disappear if you ask out or date a woman you already know. So try to make friends first and dont sound very desperate. Women find attractive guys who are comfortable being single but also ready for a relationship when the right girl comes along.

My advice is this. Just live your life, do things that interest you. Stay active and social. Try to bring more people (men or women) into your social circle.

If you do that eventually you will find a girl that interests you. And when you do pursue. If she really is interesting then you can be assured there's lots of other guys just waiting to beat you there. Girls like to know you like them. If they're interested, if not then it becomes creepy. But if they weren't interested then it wasn't going to work out anyways so it doesn't matter.

Anonymous just made my laugh.

Gee, I wonder why women clam up around you! Could it have something to do with your toxic and hate-filled attitudes towards women? They're "vendictive", those "whores", "cheaters", "money grubbers", "bar sluts" and "controlling crazies".

You wrote a handful of lines about wanting to settle down and yet you managed to pack it full of venom and hate. That hatred boiling just under the surface is not going to be invisible to the women you meet (evidently, they are not as dumb as you might think).

Maybe your error is not in your choice of women; but in your failure to deal with your own underlying issues.

Oh boy ... did you really expect good quality from bars and clubs? I haven't stepped in a single club in my whole life. People are very silly outside of clubs too, but it seems to me that the clubs somehow selects the dum8est of them all into a single place. I can't freaking understand the whole process of going from an inside(your room) to another inside(that club). I mean have we gone completely out of our minds? Are there no more outdoor activities, or mind-stimulating activities? Clubbing is so freaking dull and pointless.

ok so my theory as many agree is by 30 the good ones are gone and marries, some with kids. So if you are getting on then jus hope you get lucky!

Now with helping you out on the whole error of choice, I like the way you roll (Hometown, no clubs,pubs) however maybe stop looking as they are out working or with family. However I see where it can become impossible at a stage however I found my husband, just shy of 26. im 32 now, maybe you should join a dating site, go out... but respectable places.. however take it SLOW and pace yourself when you do find someone! maybe its the way you present yourself, if you dress or act in a bad way youll get bad attention

What does your heart tells you? That is quite often the right answer.