Why does he even bother talking to me?

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Why would he text me every night if he is probably not (his words) not going to get out of his other relationship.  I feel confused and lost and I dont know how he can claim to care for me and be my friend and how I make him feel good and then he says, probably not and still texts me.  I need some perspective.  Please help me.  I know in my gut it cant be good but I dont know how to handle this anymore. What should I say to him?  Please people this is serious...I really need someone to help me. There is no one I can talk. I have to see him through my job so how I am suppose to deal with it without leaving my job?  I am just crying over this.  Thank you for any help you can give me.  I do appreciate it.

IRP · Answer

You know in your gut that you are doing something wrong. You are doing something wrong to yourself and the other girl. So what you have to do is secretively start looking for a job. Once you get one you can inform them and leave. You need to stop all communication with him and move on. You dont deserve to be second choice of someone. Crying wont help you.You need to be strong. Whatever he tells you he doesnt genuinely care for you. He is just being pure selfish keeping you on the side. The way to move on is meet new people. keep yourself busy. Engage in new activities such as sports or dancing. Nothing good will come out of staying in a relationship with someone like him. If he cheats on that girl with you he would do the same for you with another girl one day. You can give him one last chance if you really must. Give him the option of breaking up with her or breaking up with you.

Maxx · Answer

He's just using you. He lied to get in your pants, and he lies to stay in your pants. You're naive. He's a jerk.

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Why does he even bother talking to me?

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