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I have a boyfriend, but there's another guy on my mind?
I have a boyfriend, and we will be together for 2 years this november. I love him very much and we even talk about sappy things like getting married and even children :P He has been with me through one of the hardest periods in my life and has always been by my side. I do not doubt that I love him.
But, last year, it was my junior year in HS, and my third year on my schools swim team. i remember meeting this new freshman at the beginning of the season, and we immediately hit it of and became friends. I started to notice that I would be sad when we wasn't there, and would pay a lot of attention to him.
it was the same way this year, and there was even some light flirting between the two of us. He is friends with my friends, and flirts with all of us anyway, so its nothing special, but get butterflies when he flirts with me.
Now that I graduated, I miss him, and I even dreamt about him the other night, and am still unsure about whether or not I have a crush on him.
Let me lay this out, I don't consider the kid "boyfriend material" and can't really see myself in a romantic relationship with him, but I can't get him out of my head sometimes, even though I have a boyfriend.
what does this mean?
4 Answers
- 7 years ago
Well there is nothing wrong with seeing someone else and finding them attractive we're humans after all but just don't pursue it. Loyal boyfriends are hard to find nowadays and it sounds as if you have a keeper.
- 7 years ago
You obviously like him. Lol, why else would you be asking? I have no sympathy though. You can have friends that are guys that's fine, no one should be able to control you, but if you flirt with other guys; which you just openly admitted to doing with that guy. You're Asking for trouble, that's not something you do when you're in a relationship. If you plan on flirting with other guys get the hell out of a relationship it's not right, it shows lack of self control.
- 7 years ago
Well in terminology not being able to displace someone out of their head is known as well in simple lamens terms desire. It is found through common interest and thought out fixated feelings applied to the desire.
You may of course be feeling for him genuinely not to invalidate your words, but if it were me and god(if he was real) would know I am not then I would shoot for it because well if you like someone but are with someone else it doesn't feel right.
