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Why doesn't she want to talk to me anymore?
I was at a club roughly 2 months ago when a friend of mine talked to this girl for me and told her that I thought she was cute. After a bunch of small talk, we danced and I left with her number after having a very socially awkward moment. I thought she wouldn't want to talk to me.
Anyway, after 3 days I said, "what the hell" and texted her. She seemed very surprised to hear from me and was elated that I responded. We eventually went on some dates, each ending with a make out session. I would always text her so often (about every other day) to ask how she was doing and just generally about her day, which she would always talk to me about. On our 3rd date, I told her that I liked her, which she reciprocated in kind and we even visited her family that night. Again, before the date ended we made out quite a bit. She wished me a good night before I left to do field training for a week - I'm in the Army.
I then noticed soon after that she started taking her time responding to my texts. I even tried calling but she would then tell me to text her instead. When I got back, we went on another date and things went well but I noticed a few times she would be aloof when I made suggestions about us doing things together. Like all the other times we finished our date by making out and she said she'll meet me for the next date.
The day before we were supposed to get together, it rained and it was projected to rain again on our date, which it did. She told me that she couldn't go because she was looking for apartments with her mom; apparently it was her mother's insistence they do it that day. She asked me if we could reschedule, which I told her and I never heard anything back. I replied back twice afterwards, once that I looked forward to seeing her again and the other with which day I would be free...nothing.
It has been a few days now and she hasn't talked to me, and I have yet to respond back with anything else. I have a very good idea with what's going on, but what do you all think? Serious answers please.
1 Answer
- 7 years agoFavorite Answer
It seems to me like she's either lost interest in you, or she's found someone else who's caught her interest.
It happens, and you shouldn't assume it's your fault. She should let you know, but it can be really hard to tell someone you like that you've moved onto new things (and when I say like, I mean she was interested in you, and for some reason no longer is, but she doesn't dislike you) She should be up front and honest with you, and I think that's something that you should let her know that you expect, so that you can move on.
At least she isn't leading you on with additional dates and make-out sessions.
Most of the time, a girl who is really interested won't make herself hard to find, or hard to be with.
I could be totally wrong of course, no one can know what a girl thinks at the best of times, but it seems to me that by being distant, she is making her feelings clear.
