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I'm Bigender?
So i am a girl, and have been a girl for most of my life until 4 grade when i remember i used to tell other people i was a guy. It carried to 6th grade and i considered myself to be a guy and girl when people would ask what gender i was i said idk. I think i was just being childish?
Anyways ever since 7th grade i've been having weird dreams and fantasies of being a guy/crossdressing. Then i started to have penis envy and wanted to **** other men as a gay guy, then hours later i wanted to BE ****** as a girl/stay a girl. (you know teenage fantasies) i continued to swamp back and forth as a guy and girl. I even changed my fb to male and asked everyone to call me a he. I don't think i'm full transgender because i still like being both girl and guy.
Question 1. Do i have to be a guy for a full day or a girl for a full day during a week to be bigender? Because i only feel like a certain gender for only a few hours/sometimes days.
Question 2. AM i bigender?
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- AlexLv 67 years agoFavorite Answer
You might also be genderfluid. The line between "bigender" and "genderfluid" is a hazy one, though, so consider both of the definitions as provided by nonbinary.org:
Bigender = Having two gender identities or expressions, either simultaneously, at different times or in different situations
Genderfluid = Moving between two or more different gender identities or expressions at different times or in different situations
Like I said, the line separating the two is hazy. Really, only you can determine your own identity. Whatever seems to fit you best, whatever you're most comfortable with, that's the label that you should adopt. It's your decision. Remember, you were not created to fit labels. Labels were created to fit you.
Also, "penis envy" is a concept and term coined by Sigmund Freud, and should really be avoided. "Dysphoria", I think, is the word you're looking for.
- 7 years ago
1. I don't think so, because from my understanding being bigender isn't wanting to be both genders every minute but flipping back and forth between the two depending on the situation.
2. Possibly. You could visit emptyclosets.com to talk on an LGBT forum
- 7 years ago
Honestly we can''t dignose you over the net... On of the best answeres on Y!A will be here to give you links to places that could point you in the right direction. the best kinda person to help you is a gender therpist
