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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 7 years ago

Starting school on Tuesday!! Need help with getting freinds.?

Hey, Im going into 9th grade. The first day is on tuesday. Last year I had a rough time with friends and expessially girls. No one really wanted to be my friend because I was a nerd and creepy. (Creepy is a long story). I really want to make some friends and be normal. This year im starting highschool and coming from a regional midddle school. There is only one new town joining us andnits small so im worried that that may not really help me. Im friends with some sophmores but only a few. Im really scared and worried. I also would like to somehow get over my fear of this one girl (see my other question yhoo.it/1nhJ1mn) its been going on for ages and she is keeping me back from being my true self. It has caused me great stress. Any suggestions on what to do? Any help is welcome. Ill answer your questions if you wan't

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  • 7 years ago

    Starting a new school can be really stressful. Good work reaching out for help! Consider getting involved in a some activities at school. It can be a great way to meet people who are interested in the same things as you. Be open to the possibility of new friendships. You may find the students coming in from the new town may turn out to be great friends! Take care and keep reaching out! SD

    Source(s): Boys Town National Hotline 1-800-448-3000; www.yourlifeyourvoice.org
  • 7 years ago

    I was a freshman last year and OMFG I was so nervous cause i didn't know ANYBODY.

    First thing first make real friends don't go for the popular but the loyal people.

    second REMEMBER EVEryone wants friends that day! there new and lonely! so make friends easily!

    be confident and wear something cute. Ask a girl to sit with her at lunch and then make small talk with a guy and invite him to sit with u and then invite more guy AND THERES UR group of 4!!

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Be confident! Even if you don't feel it inside, forgot about last year or bad memories, if there's new people then be the one that says hi, come across as friendly and funny. And even with people you already know give them a smile and be polite, if people are rude to you then it's they're loss,they obviously feel the need to feel good about themselves by making other people un- comfortable. Come back to school as a confident person, and don't hide from who you are! We all have a right to be ourselves and don't let anybody stop you from being yourself :)

    Source(s): Brain
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