You say you can't get a divorce. Why can't you get a divorce?

Having young kids and obsolete job skills. I used to have a career, then my husband wanted the kids. I didn't know it meant I'd be in a sexless marriage. If I could rewind, I wouldn't have the babies so I could divorce him.

I love my babies but I hate not having sex.

People misuse the word "can't" (not capable of) when they really mean "won't" (not willing to). So, it's not a case of them not being able to divorce (except in countries where it isn't legal) but that they choose not to, for whatever personal reasons they have.

Sounds like you are addressing those with a moral issue with divorce. These folks are a dying breed. Capture it and put it in a zoo if this what your spouse is saying.

Who do you think you are addressing?