It my birthday in a couple of week and I'm not excited about it anymore.?

life is not normally exciting unless you experience emotional/physical extreme highs and lows. you might not be too happy at the moment but you might be maturing if you're not craving excitement. perhaps you could save enough to take yourself out for a meal with a book or magazine and simply enjoy the surroundings and tastes for a treat. alternatively buy some foods you all share a liking for and eat with your parents without television at the table.

A day like a birthday wouldn't won't have much meaning if your life has no meaning it 's just makes you a year older Who has responsiblity for our behavior and our lives ? US so your unemployed have no social life and think being a virgin is a negative thing WOW and when you wake up each morning what is your schedule like ? do you sit around do you go for a walk do you go volunteer at a soup kitchen or church or a dog shelter where you could interact with people ? or are you on you computer all day we as people create out own world and sometimes we get into a Rut the Rut becomes a habit and yes you are unemplyed but that is an economic issue not a social issue you can do many things to meet people and also serve the community at the same time while waiting on your job applications to be answered only when we get out in the world do we make contact and for every contact it could lead to a new possibility re evaluate are you isolating yourself or is someone else isolateing you good luck

If every year of your life was a bonanza you would be very lucky. I know many, many graduates who can't get a job and for that reason everything else fall's flat as you give off a vibe of feeling hopeless.

You can't go to a shop/store and order a solution. Your asset is yourself, who you are. You need to make a list of want you want out of life and create a mind map so that you know what you are aiming for. When you reach your stage you are master of your own destiny, and money is not a part of this.

For example if you want to make a radical decision to change your life and get things moving they you may have to accept a job which is a means to an end, a job a bit menial but which takes you out of your rut. Sheep farming in New Zealand, Avocado Picking in California, Mountain rescue etc etc. This will allow you to meet people who will help you find your path in life. You have to face your fears and do it anyway - that's if you TRULY want to get out. And, because it's YOU it doesn't mean you can't do these things........

after the age of 21 no one gets excited about birthdays

they are for children/milestones

i think a lot of adults go through this limbo you are in

uni days are over, and you are on the brink of "real life" job/partner etc

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