Girl I like is dating an older guy?

At 15, you still have some learning to do in this particular field of life, I know it can be hard (especially for a teenager) to deal with this kind of thing when you really like someone. Understand a couple things - 1. She's really not doing anything wrong and is free to do as she wishes. 2. Don't put so much effort in one person, even though your odds at getting with her are especially low, they'll be even lower the harder you try or contemplate it, and you'll just feel worse. 3. It's normal to feel the way you do, so turn that feeling into motivation, better yourself in certain areas of your life and maybe start trying to meet other girls. 4. If she is your friend, treat her as such, and try not to come off as liking her or looking like a sourpuss because she got with some dude.

That's very ignorant of you to assume he's just using her. If he cared that much about getting laid don't you think he would just **** with some easy experienced college girl? I'm sure all he wants is sex still, but there's obviously something he likes about her to make him break the law.

As for telling her how you feel, I wouldn't recommend it. Just let her do her. It can be extremely weird when a friend confesses they have feelings for you. My friend did it to me, and now I get super uncomfortable hanging out with him. We're going to a concert in a few weeks and my friend with benefits is also going so I asked him if he would meet up with us and be all over me and act like were together so that my friend would get the idea that I wasn't interested. That makes me sound like a bad person, I know, but a lot of girls would handle the situation the exact same way. Don't make her uncomfortable. If she had feelings for you and wanted to be with you, she wouldn't be dating that other guy.

As much as her current relationship isn't legal, its her relationship. You should stay out of her relationship. But you should stay her friend. And I mean friend. I am sure with him being in college there is going to come a time where he is going to mess up. He will probably hurt her. At that time she will need a friend. And you never know at that time you may be the one to help her through it and explain that everything happens for a reason. That reason may just be so you two can be together. But if you put your nose in her business she may cut you off all together.

Bro, you've got to fight him. It will prove your masculinity to her. Don't be scared of him.

I'm a boxer and when I was 14 I dropped a 21 year old marine 4 times in sparring. Girls love that stuff.

there is nothing wrong with it.