ladies I need you're opinion?

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Hey how are you? :) I'm here to ask if it's weird or whatnot that I'm 18 and have yet to have my first kiss yet. Its not that I'm unattractive ...most girls actually told me that I'm cute and handsome. I've just graduated high school about three months ago and am thinking about not going to college and going to a technical school instead. I played baseball in high school and I'm very athletic as I still workout just to keep myself in shape. I'm not lying you're making this up at all but I've made a list of the girls that I could have went out with in high school and the list consists of literally 23 girls. that's twenty three girls that have actually come up to me and asked me out and I have turned them down not because they were unattractive anything like that they weren't my type of girl. You see I'm a funny guy, I'm cool and fun to hang out with. I also guess that just because of my looks people assume that I get all the girls...none of my friends believed the fact that I'm still virgin, and when other girls are asked about me they assume that I have already lost my virginity as well. I ask this one girl what was it about me that made her think that way, and she said that its just that I'm very funny and cool to be around and because of the way I carry myself. do you think I'm making the right moves by turning those girls down? is saving yourself for the right person sweet in our society today? I'm not a jerk or player by any means. I'm just a guy looking for an opinion :D

mt75689 · Answer

I don't understand your question.

On one hand you portray yourself as some hot guy who can have his pick of the litter, and on the other hand you appear to be completely insecure and clueless.

Don't ask the girls to make you feel good about yourself ~ that's what you're really tying to do here. The way I see it, you're not required to go out with any girl who asks you out. But at the same time, you didn't really know if any of them were your type before you shot them down. There had to be at least a few girls out of 23 that were compatible with you.

You're not picking a wife. Dating is about seeing who fits with you and who doesn't. You can tell right away with some people that they're not your type, and with other people it takes time to discover that.

Instead of sitting back and letting the girls come to you, you should set your sights on someone who you think is your type, and you be the one to ask her out.

Baby D · Answer

Girls are probably scared to, you know, admit that they like you. If you're that cute and athletic, girls are most likely scared to admit it but you just have to be patient. Your kiss will come. C; Hope I helped. :)

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