She has just told me she is leaving the country forever?

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Alright so me and this girl were dating for 5 years and out of all those 5 years I didn't treat her right, I cheated, lied and betrayed her, I even slept with her sister and she gave me chance after chance until another guy come along and she left me for him. It's been two years since we broke up and now she is happy with her boyfriend because he treats her like a queen. Anyway because she is pretty close friends with my sister, I went to my sisters house and saw my ex there and my ex told me that she has nothing left in this country anymore and is leaving. Her sisters live in another country with their kids and now she just feels like she has to move on with her life by living in another country.

josh · Answer

Well im sorry to say this but there is nothing you can do besides telling her how you feel and say some prayers. I have had a 3 year relationship and left her because i was depressed. I thought she would always love me like she said. That wasnt the case. She eventually found a new bf and they have been together for 4 years and still are to this day. Do i feel robbed? Yes. Do i still love her? Yes. I will not let this ruin my life and neither should you. We can control our feelings but we can not control others. We can wish them the best of luck. Hoping one day they will find the right path to happiness. Rather if its with or with out us. Right now she happens to not see you on her path. Im not saying drop her. Nor am i saying try to convince her. Just tell her how you feel, say some prayers, and good luck. If that doesnt work. Move on but never ever and i MEAN EVER GIVE UP.

MM · Answer

So what's the question, exactly?  What kind of goodbye gift to get her?  Because if her current relationship isn't incentive enough to stay (or if she's leaving with him), then there's no way she's sticking around to give you the opportunity to blow yet another chance.  Wish her well and move on with your life.  She pretty clearly is.

Anonymous · Answer

wow.  Can you blame her? try treating your next girl right to avoid this.. a girls not going to stay with someone who dosetn treat her right, and neither should any guy. if you really love her you should be happy that she is happy and finally being treated right.

Zoe · Answer

I don't really understand what you are trying to ask? Do you want to get back with your ex?

Alison S · Answer

Maybe you will learn from this and treat someone better in the future.

Haley B · Answer

Better luck next time. Learn from your mistakes.

Maxi · Answer

Thats nice for her.......... and maybe you can now grow up and realise you have to get on with your life

Ferritt · Answer

Let her to and move on.

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She has just told me she is leaving the country forever?

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