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Should it hurt after this many times?

So me and my bf have had sex probably six times now, he was my first time, but it still hurts me just as much every time we do it as it did the first time. He is slow and gentle, so I don't understand why this is happening. Any reason why this happens, or any way to help it not hurt so much? Thank you!

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  • 7 years ago

    are you not properly lubed? If you are dry or close to it when he goes inside it can be really painful and hurt a lot. Make sure you are properly aroused (if that is the problem) and that you are wet before he enters you. Try some foreplay to get this going if you arent aroused when he wants to do it. If that doesnt work you should probably see a doctor because you shouldnt be in that much pain.

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    7 years ago

    either you are not aroused or you have a medical problem

    sex should never hurt

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