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How to problem solve with your girlfriend?

Yesterday my girlfriend and I had a fight this morning I created a strategy for the both of us to use so it can avoid a, conflict of interest.

"In order for the two of us to work this out there has to be a strategy put in place so we can both re-establish a, positive communication. If we can or cannot agree, or disagree on this term, it will permanently damage our reputations. We can simply realize that we are both intelligent, thoughtful people with an opinion differing from our own words. But this is what I am bringing to the table: I will do my own transportation, we will schedule a time and place to meet, I will show up on-time, if I am running late or if I cannot make it I will let you know before-hand. There will be no arguing or verbal/physical abuse (if there is an issue you like to discuss please discuss) it before we get together and not when we meet up. I expect that when we do meet that you treat me with respect and communicate with me like an adult, loving and friendly manner. Talk about fun things or bring up something exciting like an event or something you’re doing. There will be no negative topics; or things that happened in the past or any baggage you have that wasn’t resolved".

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  • 7 years ago

    hahaha it is funny! My dear friend life is not theory or not by simple written rules!! if LIFE and Relationships have been so easy, there would have not been any fights including world wars. So chill!!!! First understand its perfectly acceptable to FIGHT and ARGUE over any issue. What is more important is even after having differing opinions, you still can respect each other, love each other and finally fight together. And once the fight is over, be matured enough to say sorry, start love again , then fight over differences again. Its like day and night- you have to have night to enjoy the day and vice versa, You have to have the fight to enjoy the beauty of love.

    Wish you all the best dude. Go and enjoy the fight as well as love.

    Santhosh

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Its good

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