What does I can't be in a relationship right now mean? Should I wait?

I get told by girls they don't want to be in a relationship. I'm pretty sure what they mean is "a Commitment", which is good, because I don't want that either. I just want to be able to be around her and enjoy her company. To me... a relationship IS how two people -OR- people treat each other. If they are around each other, enjoy each other, care, trust and respect each other... THAT'S A RELATIONSHIP. As for the intimacy stuff, well I kinda sneak that in with humor, compliments, sweet nothings and stuff that makes her feel happy, special and glad we are FRIENDS and together. After that comes this:

The following is information you will need one day:

(for this girl or the next)

TO GET A DATE, without having to ask: Tell her you know someone that wants to go on a date with her. She'll want to know WHO. Take her by the hand to wherever there is a reflection and standing next to her say "Him" (pointing at your reflection)

TO HOLD HER HAND

When you have been with her for awhile and are side by side (walking, standing or sitting) gently take her hand and Say: "Can I borrow this for a little bit? I Promise to take care of it and return it in awhile" She will smile and probably be Impressed and Flattered. If she flinches and pulls away, chances are its a REACTION, NOT REJECTION. Smile and give her something of yours as deposit/collateral and Let her know you want it back when you return her, her hand.

TO GET A QUICK KISS. As long as she is enjoying herself with you. In the middle of a conversation, Smile and say: "Close your eyes, you have something close to them". When she does, Touch your lips to hers. Not really a kiss, but it breaks the ice. Then tell her: "Oh it was just me. You have soft lips, I like that". Keep smiling. Ask her what yours felt like, before she says anything. But keep smiling.

ANOTHER WAY TO GET A QUICK KISS: When she applies some lipstick or chap stick, ASK: "Could I try some?"

and hold out your hand to take it. (If it's lipstick, she'll look puzzled). When she goes to hand it to you, move into her and "touch" your lips to hers. Step back and ask her if she thinks it's your color? (referring to the lipstick) Chances are she will laugh. Then tell her you'd like to try her lipstick again later on.

IF NO LIPSTICK: Say: "The curiosity is killing me." She'll say "What curiosity OR Curiosity of what?" You say: "Of what it would be like to kiss you. Mind If I satisfy my curiosity?" If she blushes and smiles… Move in for a gentle kiss. If she says "Here?" You say: "No, on the lips." And move in for a gentle kiss.

OR IF NO LIPSTICK: NOT Asking Her, unexpectedly say: "Why do people who want to kiss me say "What?" She'll say "WHAT?" You respond: "Not You Too." Then chuckle and smile at her. When she realizes what you said and how she responded, she'll blush or laugh or both. In any case you are having FUN with each other and there is NOTHING WRONG with that.

move on ---- if she really liked you she would have ignored that "advice" ---- you cant exclude the world and "work on yourself" we are a work in progress our whole life and to reject romance is really saying she does not like you that much