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He has a gf but he's cheating on her with me but claims it's mainly out of fun... guys opinions? (WITHOUT JUDGMENT)?

So this guy I sort of like has been talking to me nightly for the past month now roughly. I've given him oral, he's only fingered me, haven't slept together nor kissed and our conversations are generally very sexual. He says he likes me a little but our fun conversations are mainly out of fun... Just trying to get my head around why a guy would cheat on his gf for "fun" with some other girl a few times. I'm selfish and I like him and I am well aware I'm not being fair on her but I really don't care so just skip that part and give actual opinions on WHY he's doing it, I don't care if you think he's an asshole or whatever, answer the question as is or don't answer at all.

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  • 7 years ago

    I'd prefer not to ask him that... I don't really want a boyfriend, I was just curious.

  • 7 years ago

    Why is he doing it??? because you are having sex with him. Plain and simple. having a cheating relationship is exciting, the thrill of doing something bad and taboo, on top of the fact that its unattached sex. he has no obligation or requirements with you. Its just he gets to show up, get off, and go back to his gf.

  • 7 years ago

    opinion is a judgment

    you can ask him to treat u like gf. he can ve 2 gfs if he so good. if he is having fun w you, he is having fun w his gf too. it is nt his gf.

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