My girlfriend wants nothing to do with me?

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A couple of days I left my phone behind back at my condo I had to go out of town for the night but I had to let, my maintenance guy in. Last Thursday I refused, to pay him because he had done a poor job working on tiles I wanted put into my floor. I discovered that he was an illegal alien from Mexico he saw one of my ads I posted so he called me asking if he could work on my condo. I said yes at the time I was currently seeing someone at the time in “West Hollywood” but now she doesn’t want nothing to do with me due to some messages he sent.
On Monday he looked through my phone and got her contact information including my (legal partners) email address. He sent her a sexual text that scared her I’m not surprised it’s disgusting no woman should ever have to read something like that. She blocked my number, my email address and everything else. I returned home last night he told me. He sent her messages I punched him in the face and I slammed his head against the wall I told him to get out. I wanted nothing to do with him I don’t know if she’ll ever talk to me again after what he sent I’m doing well now I have a practice to run but it still stings. It’s really painful it’s hard to motivate by having to get up in the morning especially after you just had a breakup for something you never sent. It’s going, to hurt for a couple of days but things will better but who knows what will happen down the road.

Skye · Answer

You should tell the truth to her and report that guy to the authorities. Seriously, that's disgusting and a huge invasion of privacy.

Tell your girlfriend exactly what happened. If you've never acted that way before, she should know it's very out of your character. If you can't get in touch with her, try to talk to a friend and have him/her explain to your girlfriend that your phone was stolen, you've reported the guy to the authorities, and you are deeply sorry that she was on the receiving end of such a disgusting act.

? · Answer

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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor. 

The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it. 

Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.

Anonymous · Answer

Tell her it was him that did it not u and tell her the truth

park · Answer

troll

Roksana · Answer

She is testing u.

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