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Help with (gay) dating about how to talk to a guy about slowing things down...?

So me and this guy have been talking about about a month this weekend. To me, we're just "talking" and considered single. To him, we're "exclusive" and shouldn't be hooking up/talking to anyone else. I like the kid, but i wanna take things slow (another 3-4 months) before we make it officially exclusive! How would you break it to someone?

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  • 7 years ago

    Have an honest open discussion with him you called him kid. If it's an age difference that needs 3-4 months to resolve. Let him know. Or simply tell him that you really like him. And feel like you need more time to bond before consumating the relationship.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Being in a comitted relationship makes life purposeful

  • 7 years ago

    You shoukd tell him how you feel. Tell him gently, and explain that you like him but you feel like more time is needed before the relationship becomes a serious one.

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