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how can I try and come out ahead of this and get the girl?
Ok so last week I went to some chilly fundraiser at my college and a girl from my biology class was helping running it. And she recognized me from class and started asking me about an assignment. After that we parted ways. That night (as our class is a night class) at our halfway break she came over to me and tells me that she knows we don't really know each other but since she talked to me this morning she feels like I'm her friend. she then says she had a death in the family and asked me to email her the review for the upcoming test (which I did). And then she leaves early. Of the little I've talked with her I like her all in all and I'd like to ask her out. But I don't know if I can play these cards I've been delt in my favor. Any suggestions on how to go about this?
2 Answers
- 7 years ago
She sounds to be very open and comfortable around you.
That said, its very possible that this could potentially develop into something more.
I would encourage you to have another conversation or two with her before making the decision to ask her out.
I only say that because at this point in time she doesn't really know you (or you, her) however you also want to make your move before you become mega best friends and either of you runs the chance of being friend-zoned. :p
Another great aspect is the fact that she's approached you and even called you someone she could consider a friend, which means you have the green light to approach her whenever it suits you!
Maybe you could focus on finding something out that you have in common first which could then be the inspiration for this date you plan on asking her out on?
Otherwise you could mention to her this great restaurant you tried and how you're dying to go back- after you've gouged her interest, ask her if she would be interested in accompanying you.
Or you could mention a movie you really want to see and ask her if that type of movie would appeal to her also?
One more thing I would recommend, is that when she accepts to go on a date with you, make arrangements straight away or smile, tell her you'll check out vacancies or viewing times and that you'll get back to her with a date and time- plus this is a great way to get her number ;)
- Anonymous7 years ago
lol just get to know her as a friend first and keep it at that and focus on school and possibly feelings will grow between you bothe in the future. but if you don't wan to hide your feelings get professional advice or just tell her but she might get afraid or take advantage of you or just be cool with it so its up to you
