stressful and depressed. bf physically and emotinally away .need his passion and interest back. hlp?

my boyfried started liking me in the 10th grade.from dawn to dusk he was texting . Now it has been 7 years. Due to our societal restrictions we couldn't meet a lot of times so we met just 9 to 10 times in all these years . initially we became physically closer like hugs etc but gradually we became more. Putting off shirt n etc . But we still are virgins.

now in 2014 i am done with my graduation. My parents want me to get married at least in a year or a two. BUT he my bf is not prepared. He has not studied after 12th grade. He is not doing anything for living. And now he doesn't texts me by himself. If i text him he talks. I cannot think of living without him . He said me in july that he will not be able to marry me and i should get prepared for all this. But i told him that he is upset that is why he thinks lik dis. I assured him that i will wait for him and will only marry him . He said" ok lets see what happens im tring my best to do something and earn" . Now after that we strted it normally . We had sexting and chats etc. But gradually now he doesnt texts me first . What should i do

. I want him to luv me like the way he did in the beginning. I want him to miss me and think of me and getting married to me .

p.s : i cannot confront him . If i do so he tells me to end the relationship as he is already too upset and burdened in his life. I try to help him emotionally but nothing is working.

advice plz.his dad also died.