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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 7 years ago

Should I say something or not?

My best friend has changed A LOT just in the past month, and I think it has a lot to do with this other girl she's hanging around with but there's not much I can do about that.

She's hardly making any effort with me but gets upset when I ignore her back or confront her. I've told her I hate it when she does this before and she did stop but now it's starting again.

I'm so tried of being the one trying to fix things.

Should I try confront her about it one last time or should I just ignore her?

I know a lot of you will just say ignore but she has helped me so much and I love her a lot, it's really hard and upsetting what's going on right now 😢

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  • You should sit down & tell her how you really feel. Don't seem too angry at her though. Let her know how she's changed & how you wish she could go back to the way she used to be. Tell her that YOU were her friend first & that she shouldn't let temporary people change her into someone shes not because she will end up being the hurt one because she will lose people (such as yourself) for doing that.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    If this is about a friend I think the best thing to do would be to confront about it because it seems like the other girl probably makes her feel uncomfortable and she probably only feels comfortable to speak to you. Confront her in a kind way without hurting her or upsetting her.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Confront her But say whats on your mind, beating around the bush causes so many misunderstandings

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    Are you guys okay now?

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