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Why do we have enemies at work?

If a colleague you don’t know and you don’t know why they hate you, it is simply important to ask them calmly and nicely. But most colleagues don't approach his or her hater, if they know what they are capable of something drastic or something that can leave them hurt. Or it could leave you in embarrassment. If they are nasty to you or start swearing or being violent, simply walk away and don’t bother trying to talk to them again until they start being civil. Some people can be given second chances to realize that you aren’t really a bad person and they have nothing to hate you for. But that’s always not the case and they just won’t want you in their life, it is important to not waste your time fretting about why they don’t like you.

Throughout my career I had people resent me for many reasons; the reason they do is because I tell them things that they don’t want to hear. Everyone lives in their own world but once their universe is invaded they will go to any means to defend his or her honor.

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  • Bill
    Lv 7
    7 years ago

    Many people are prejudice or jealous and this brings out their insecurities. They feel that if they talk badly about you it will make them look better, which is false.

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