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I'm really skinny and unattractive to girls, how can I change that?
I have really bad self esteem because I m a bottom of the barrel (lookwise) male. I m Really skinny (130 lbs @ 5 9") and thats ponly because I gained a few pounds in the gym. I dress well at the very least. So I go to the gym and I dress well, that seems to be the only things I can do.
Also this makes me kinda miserable because I love to skateboard and I deny myself that just so I don t lose the weight I m gaining. My life has become dull and boring. I m starting to feel really depressed but I want to be attractive so when I finally break and go skateboarding I an t enjoy it because I get anxious about lossing the little weight I worked so hard to gain.
This is a very conflicting situation.
1 Answer
- ?Lv 57 years ago
You can't make female feel attracted to you. GIRLS aren't mature yet and most of them don't know what they want. Like ANY person, it is up to the individual person to decide what they find attractive. Not every girl wants a buff guy who spend more time at the gym than with her. Anyone can be healthy and in shape without having the photoshopped and 'perfect' body that's on the covers of countless magazines. If you try and be someone your not, eventually you'll get out of it and she'll break up with you for 'changing', when you weren't really being who you were in the first place. Women value honesty above a hot douchebag who lies to her any day.
