being bullied and dont know what to do?

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What started off as being quite childish a couple of years ago when I was 18 has turned into something worse. Im not going to go into detail but a couple of years ago me and this girl fell out over a guy, (as you do at that age) at the time she'd just put insulting things on Facebook,  horrible messages, phone calls etc however this has never stopped. Im now 20, and shes got to the point where shes started making anonmymous complaints about me in my work place to the point where im having to explain this situation to my boss. And tbh I don't really know what to do, she has this grudge against me, and even after 2 years it still hasnt ended. The things that shes doing to me are getting worse, I don't have evidence to prove That it is her, even though I know it is, and its getting to the point where its making me depressed. ts not something id want to go to the police about. Does anyone have any suggestions?

Wonderwoman · Answer

Yeah. This is your life not a competition about who is right and who can win over the other. So make your life better and do not worry about "Letting her win" or whatever. Move jobs, change facebook accounts, email addresses, phone numbers. Even move house if you have to. Get rid of her. 
If you do not act to protect yourself, it will never stop. The fact that you are too pathetic to do anything to try to stop her makes her do it even more. She loves having you helpless. She loves it that she has that level of power over you that ultimately fear of her and lack of confidence in your own worth makes you meekly let her do whatever she wants. You are more scared of the police maybe not believeing you than you are of just letting her keep torturing you.

LOVEEE STRUCKKK · Answer

id say fight back but it might not be the best revenge.....stand up to her and make her see your happy :) best wishes

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