My friend told our little secret?

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So there  was this one guy who would always hit on me. I told him I won't go out with him. He asked me again being romantic and all that, acting VERY desperate. I finally told him no strictly. So he moved on asked out many other girls and even my friends. My best friend, whom I trust with my entire heart, and I made a nickname for him, " man slut". It was our little joke. So a year went by and he actually got a girlfriend. He stopped talking to me. Cut connection with me basically. I forgot to tell you but we were still friends with each other even when I rejected him. So I asked him are we still friends. He said, (exact words) "I guess we are still friends. Just for you to know, I'm not a "man slut" anymore because I'm going to spend my life with Jessica (his gf) ". I feel so bad. I am close to tears. I never wanted to hurt him. Ever. I still can t believe how she told him our little nickname which I was totally over. I know i was wrong and I deserved it but seriously I wanted to be his friend again and my "best" friend told him. It's like she wanted me to seem bad. Please anyone I need advice on what I should do??? All answers appreciated!

? · Answer

Don't do anything unless you want to apologize.  If you have nothing worse than this to look back upon in life, you are a rare person, indeed.  It is good that you feel bad because it shows you are a very decent person.  But, he is at least partially at fault, too.  So, don't give it any more thought other than to resolve not to stigmatize anyone in the future.  I wish all people were as kind as you obviously are.  So, good luck with your life and with your future friends.

Tommylee · Answer

Look, your the girl friend of a guy thats in a relationship, whether its your bestfriend or sister the girl is gonna be thinking twice about you hanging out with him because again your the girl thats a friend of the dude with a legit gf. Even worst if the girl is very jealous, and if she is its best you totally cut connections with this dude. He was friends with you because he wanted you... now that he has a gf why would he hang out with you lol i wouldnt, id be hanging out and joking with my gf.

Gregory · Answer

So I would apologize "man slut" guy and tell him you don't think that anymore and it was a joke(if he seems annoyed about it) and tell your "best" friend that you are annoyed that she told him, she probably didn't think that you would mind or it might have been by accident, only she knows.

? · Answer

Maybe it will teach you not to do that to someone who you consider a friend. That was a very c*nty thing to do and yes you deserved it. Your friend probably got it too after she spilled the secret.

Jolie · Answer

He just sounds hurt. Honestly, I think you guys should put this past you and be friends again. This is silly.

Mr. Smith · Answer

Girls are their own worst enemy.

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