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Getting over an ex?
Well to start with I was dating this boy since January and then in May he cheated with this girl I really disliked on me and then I forgave him because I believe in second chances. So went to different schools in September and we were rarely seeing each other so he asked for a break and I didn't want one. He also asked for one because this boy touched me inappropriately and I obviously told him and he said he 'didn't know what type of relationship I had with this boy' - I didn't think we needed a break & it wasn't my fault this boy touched me. And then during this break I was really depressed and upset because I missed him. 5 days later he comes back and I explained to him how depressed I was and he said he will never do it again and it was a mistake.
Three days later, he isn't answering my messages. I thought he was in hospital or lost his phone I was so worried. So I went to a party and I was drunk and I was drunk texting him saying I miss you blah and he finally replies and he calls me saying he didn't know if he wants to be with me anymore and he didn't tell me about this break because he didn't want to upset me.
I was humiliated, broken and tired. He begged for me back saying convincing things but I stuck by his word and ended things finally.
I'm trying to get over him and I'm hurting a lot. He was my first love and I'm only sixteen. Can someone give me advice please?
1 Answer
- 6 years ago
As you started dating him at a rather young age you probably weren't ready for the relationship.Think about what he did to you. He took your heart and your trust and tore it apart. You should not think about that person anymore, because you clearly weren't right for each other. To get over him, try meeting new people and doing things you have never done before, for example learning to play an instrument, travelling somewhere new or trying out a new sport. If you want to, have some alone time - go shopping or get a massage that will help you fix your thoughts. Also about the second chances: I think you should deeply rethink that, because cheaters usually don't change.
Hope this helped :)
