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Is this love or envy?
I dated this girl last year but we broke up, I felt happy that we broke up. However, this year she met this guy and for some reason, I wanted her back!
So we have been talking on the phone, it was good but when we are almost going back together, I feel stressed and don't want her again. however, when she says she will marry this new guy, I told her not to so we could work it out. At that point, I want to hurt her as in slander and make her cry. Is this love or am I just envy of her?
3 Answers
- Anonymous6 years agoFavorite Answer
There is no love here.
There is only selfish attachment, and your attachment is not to her. It is to your own ego, which feels really hurt when she can DARE to get over YOU and move on to someone else.
Love is kindness and concern or the other person. Love shows itself THOUGH kind acts, and without the acts of kindness there is no love .. it is something else.
It is not wanting them, and it most certainly is not wanting to hurt them either.
- 6 years ago
this is just you not wanting her but you also dont want anyone else to have her...your being selfish and inconsiderate....dont lead her on if you dont love her and dont see a future with her because of your jealousy....be a man and do the right thing.
