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Is this wrong?

Lately, our friend (let's call her Sara) has been very rude and lazy and not coming to school. She hasn't come to more than 3 days per week since school started and it's about halfway through. So, yesterday, our teacher asked us if we wanted to come up with the partners for a project for a reward for something we did, but she wasn't there in our group. So as revenge, we asked the teacher to put her with this guy she hates and made it seem like she liked him. Is this really wrong or did she get what's coming to her?

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  • 6 years ago

    Yes. This scenario sounds like you're in either late elementary school or early high school. I say this because it sounds so imature, why should her missing days of school have anything to do with you? Why would you even need to seek "revenge"? The fact that you teamed her up with someone she "doesnt like" i wouldnt even call revenge anyway, do boys still have cooties or something?

    Also, you don't know what's going on with her, if she's missing this much school and she's being rude, something might be going on with her at home that you have no clue about, maybe text her/or talk to her and see whats up, if you're close to her, tell her mom that shes been acting strange because it could be depression, abuse etc you don't know.

    What you did, was wrong I guess in the sense that you're hating on this girl when clearly she has something going on and you're trying to get under her skin for no reason and acting like a bully trying to get revenge. Grow up

  • 6 years ago

    Straight up it's wrong! I mean you don't even know if something has happened in her personal life and how is that "revenge" going to help? It has nothing to do with anything and it won't teach her a lesson in any way. Try talking to her and ask her what's wrong ( that is if she's still talking to you after what you've done)

  • Skye
    Lv 6
    6 years ago

    Did her not coming to school really affect you? Yes, that was mean. Also, you really have no idea what is going on with her - if the teachers and administration aren't getting her in trouble, she's probably got a legitimate reason. She might be sick, she might have a very sick relative, it could be a number of things. You also sort of punished the kid she hates too - they're both going to be miserable working together, most likely. The damage is probably done on this one, but next time, don't try to act as the truancy officer and punish your friend for not going to school.

  • 6 years ago

    Yes, there could be something really wrong and that's the reason she's not coming. If she is a good friend you should try to make sure every thing is ok.

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  • 6 years ago

    it depends. you dont know her background story

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